"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masturbation question

Jenkies

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I've read a few posts on this board saying that not masturbating will improve your confidence and drive to get women yada yada yada. Is this actually true though? I've always been a pretty horny guy, usually beat it like once every other day on average but I'm always thinkin about sex. It's now been 5 days since i jerked it cause I'm making a conscious effort to see how long I can go without doing it, and I'm starting to go insane from the urge to **** something. I'm just not seeing what benefits I can get from this at this point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RAFCbearfilm

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That means that it is working...Ha! Instead of jerking yourself off, yuo take that desire and energy to find a woman to do it for you! Get it now?
 

OddManOut85

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yeah.im wondering the same thing.ive been trying not to,but sometimes i give in lol.but now i am really trying not too to spank it.so yeah,does it increase confidence,drive,etc? cause if it does,i feel im in for some more painful self revelation.
 

Cod3r

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Wat i've learned is that overall it decreases your sexual drive, but you'll experience random days where it'll be VERY strong, but on most days its actually not bad at all, ur drive actually will seem more chilled...


-Cod3r
 

SexinEar

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If you really want some overdrived energy, start jacking off but DO NOT Ejaculate. Youll be walking around the entire day as if your ass is on fire.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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