"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A must read for every DJ.

http://www.amazon.com/Mastery-Keys-...e=UTF8&qid=1345057540&sr=8-1&keywords=mastery


Just reading this book will cut %95 of bullsh!t from your lives, lies that we diligently pump into ourselves, and strengthen our will in the path to our success whatever it is we are busy with.

A lot of insights are there but one key message from the book is to "love the plateau". I won't pull a BackBreaker here and spoil the story for you in a thousand words; so go and discover it yourself.

Edit: If you are interested but you don't want to buy the book yet, I can send a .pdf copy of the book - PM me your email address.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I couldn't reply to all of you (because of 3-min PM rule)

but thanks all of you for your interest (there were quite a few interested!)

I am glad we share the same interests. I hope you'll like it.

If more of you want it, just drop me a PM with an email.

Cheers,
 

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What a weird coincidence... I just cracked that book open last night before bed! Looks like a winner.
 

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Weird.

But maybe not. After all; it's a coincidence that we are here in this forum, too.

In any case, I liked the fact that you also are reading it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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