"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A must read for every DJ.

http://www.amazon.com/Mastery-Keys-...e=UTF8&qid=1345057540&sr=8-1&keywords=mastery


Just reading this book will cut %95 of bullsh!t from your lives, lies that we diligently pump into ourselves, and strengthen our will in the path to our success whatever it is we are busy with.

A lot of insights are there but one key message from the book is to "love the plateau". I won't pull a BackBreaker here and spoil the story for you in a thousand words; so go and discover it yourself.

Edit: If you are interested but you don't want to buy the book yet, I can send a .pdf copy of the book - PM me your email address.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I couldn't reply to all of you (because of 3-min PM rule)

but thanks all of you for your interest (there were quite a few interested!)

I am glad we share the same interests. I hope you'll like it.

If more of you want it, just drop me a PM with an email.

Cheers,
 

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What a weird coincidence... I just cracked that book open last night before bed! Looks like a winner.
 

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Weird.

But maybe not. After all; it's a coincidence that we are here in this forum, too.

In any case, I liked the fact that you also are reading it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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