"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A must read for every DJ.

http://www.amazon.com/Mastery-Keys-...e=UTF8&qid=1345057540&sr=8-1&keywords=mastery


Just reading this book will cut %95 of bullsh!t from your lives, lies that we diligently pump into ourselves, and strengthen our will in the path to our success whatever it is we are busy with.

A lot of insights are there but one key message from the book is to "love the plateau". I won't pull a BackBreaker here and spoil the story for you in a thousand words; so go and discover it yourself.

Edit: If you are interested but you don't want to buy the book yet, I can send a .pdf copy of the book - PM me your email address.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I couldn't reply to all of you (because of 3-min PM rule)

but thanks all of you for your interest (there were quite a few interested!)

I am glad we share the same interests. I hope you'll like it.

If more of you want it, just drop me a PM with an email.

Cheers,
 
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What a weird coincidence... I just cracked that book open last night before bed! Looks like a winner.
 
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Weird.

But maybe not. After all; it's a coincidence that we are here in this forum, too.

In any case, I liked the fact that you also are reading it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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