"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A must read for every DJ.

http://www.amazon.com/Mastery-Keys-...e=UTF8&qid=1345057540&sr=8-1&keywords=mastery


Just reading this book will cut %95 of bullsh!t from your lives, lies that we diligently pump into ourselves, and strengthen our will in the path to our success whatever it is we are busy with.

A lot of insights are there but one key message from the book is to "love the plateau". I won't pull a BackBreaker here and spoil the story for you in a thousand words; so go and discover it yourself.

Edit: If you are interested but you don't want to buy the book yet, I can send a .pdf copy of the book - PM me your email address.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I couldn't reply to all of you (because of 3-min PM rule)

but thanks all of you for your interest (there were quite a few interested!)

I am glad we share the same interests. I hope you'll like it.

If more of you want it, just drop me a PM with an email.

Cheers,
 

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What a weird coincidence... I just cracked that book open last night before bed! Looks like a winner.
 

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Weird.

But maybe not. After all; it's a coincidence that we are here in this forum, too.

In any case, I liked the fact that you also are reading it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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