"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Master Don Juan
- Thread starter Odysseus
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
it should be the 500 mark.
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GREAT WHITE SHARK
Go hunting and kill a huge deer
Go fishing and fish an enormous pike
F.UCK F.UCK F.UCK hot blonds
buy an alligator skin mocassins
write a book that sells 10.000.000 copies
buy a X5 BMW
SHout GO TO HELL B.ITCH! for those who deserve it.
I'm surprised it hasn't been considered yet along with an upgrade of software. It really is a good idea.
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Make eye contact, smile, go for the kill...
CobraGT
Senior Don Juan
CobraGT
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
trickynick
Master Don Juan
In fact I would go so far as to suspect that some of the best DJ's here post rarely or not at all because their busy getting their freak on with hot chicks. Let's not forget why we are here, it's not a contest to see who can rack up the most posts.
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 01-22-2002).]
CobraGT
Senior Don Juan
CobraGT
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
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-"The Supra Don Juan"-
"Be a real man. If it's broke, fix it. If it's fixed, break it."
trickynick
Master Don Juan
LMAO!!! That's pretty funny!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
You think he is a "master"?
Ralfus
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I met this girl on Monday,
Took her for a drink on Tuesday,
We were making love by Wednesday,
And on Thursday & Friday & Saturday,
We chilled on Sunday.
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
Don Phenom
Senior Don Juan
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Exactly!!!!
I think it is going to be rather unfair to change the limit on who can and can't become master now that we have a bunch of pseudo masters posting.
However if changing the limit involves demotion of masters that don't fit the criteria I am all for it. I know I will lose the stupid Master Don Juan title but who cares I would rather earn it over time than have it given to me without merit.
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"The Edge... There is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. The others --- the living --- are those who pushed their control as far as they felt they could handle it, and then pulled back, or slowed down, or did whatever they had to when it came time to choose between Now and Later." Hunter S. Thompson
extravaganza
Don Juan
Nobody is a master then and everybody is a 'don juan' that way nobody will whine about : lets put the limit higher!!!
And you wont have people posting stupid replies etc just to get their post count a.k.a. one post closer to master status up.
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Those are my principles. If you don't like them I have others. - groucho marx
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Having just come to this board I initially assumed the title was earned some other way, and I was dismayed to find out that it is based entirely on quantity of comments posted. Back in ASF where I posted for several years, there were some useless flamers who posted ten times as much as anyone else and we were trying desperately to get rid of those people.
My point is that if the title IS going to be used then it *will* have some clout, at least initially, with every new arrival.
Then they will go through the same process of being disillusioned as I was when they discover how the title is earned.
So if the title is going to be used, it does make sense to find a more meaninful way of earning it.
Ideally it ought to reflect how good you are with women in real life, but that is simply impossible.
An outright vote as to who gets the title could work, but that sort of thing can derail the focus of the board, and is liable to encourage too much cliquishness and politicking.
The most workable barometer, IMO, would be to bestow the title on those who have posted a lot of GOOD posts. That could come, indirectly, from a sort of voting process by way of the number of posts that got bumbed into the archive.
I wouldn't mind it if there were technically an *easy* way for all the regulars (regulars only) to assign a usefulness grade or "number of stars" to each post, and then that post would end up with some average rating.
For one thing, I'd click on the five star posts first when reading through old posts. Also the number of four & five star posts could serve as the the basis for any special titles.
Ultimately this is mostly for the benefit of newbies, because the regulars are sure to find out for themselves whose advice they respect and whose they don't. However, if you set it up this way it would at least provide an extra incentive for people to post GOOD stuff--quality, not just quantity.
Whew...that turned into a long post!
DeepBlue
trickynick
Master Don Juan
Over 1500 posts at girlproblems.com! A master dork indeed. If it's the same guy I am thinking of, he has bragged about it here before too!Originally posted by Ralfus:
I've seen I dork at girlproblems.com with over 1500 posts!!!
You think he is a "master"?
Ralfus
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You either own the game or it owns you!
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 02-13-2002).]
PoachR75
Senior Don Juan
he he