"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Master Don Juan
- Thread starter Odysseus
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
GREAT WHITE SHARK
Master Don Juan
it should be the 500 mark.
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GREAT WHITE SHARK
Go hunting and kill a huge deer
Go fishing and fish an enormous pike
F.UCK F.UCK F.UCK hot blonds
buy an alligator skin mocassins
write a book that sells 10.000.000 copies
buy a X5 BMW
SHout GO TO HELL B.ITCH! for those who deserve it.
I'm surprised it hasn't been considered yet along with an upgrade of software. It really is a good idea.
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Make eye contact, smile, go for the kill...
CobraGT
Senior Don Juan
CobraGT
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
trickynick
Master Don Juan
In fact I would go so far as to suspect that some of the best DJ's here post rarely or not at all because their busy getting their freak on with hot chicks. Let's not forget why we are here, it's not a contest to see who can rack up the most posts.
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 01-22-2002).]
CobraGT
Senior Don Juan
CobraGT
TurboLover
Senior Don Juan
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-"The Supra Don Juan"-
"Be a real man. If it's broke, fix it. If it's fixed, break it."
trickynick
Master Don Juan
LMAO!!! That's pretty funny!
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You either own the game or it owns you!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
You think he is a "master"?
Ralfus
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I met this girl on Monday,
Took her for a drink on Tuesday,
We were making love by Wednesday,
And on Thursday & Friday & Saturday,
We chilled on Sunday.
Sociopath31
Master Don Juan
Don Phenom
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Exactly!!!!
I think it is going to be rather unfair to change the limit on who can and can't become master now that we have a bunch of pseudo masters posting.
However if changing the limit involves demotion of masters that don't fit the criteria I am all for it. I know I will lose the stupid Master Don Juan title but who cares I would rather earn it over time than have it given to me without merit.
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"The Edge... There is no honest way to explain it because the only people who really know where it is are the ones who have gone over. The others --- the living --- are those who pushed their control as far as they felt they could handle it, and then pulled back, or slowed down, or did whatever they had to when it came time to choose between Now and Later." Hunter S. Thompson
extravaganza
Don Juan
Nobody is a master then and everybody is a 'don juan' that way nobody will whine about : lets put the limit higher!!!
And you wont have people posting stupid replies etc just to get their post count a.k.a. one post closer to master status up.
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Those are my principles. If you don't like them I have others. - groucho marx
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Having just come to this board I initially assumed the title was earned some other way, and I was dismayed to find out that it is based entirely on quantity of comments posted. Back in ASF where I posted for several years, there were some useless flamers who posted ten times as much as anyone else and we were trying desperately to get rid of those people.
My point is that if the title IS going to be used then it *will* have some clout, at least initially, with every new arrival.
Then they will go through the same process of being disillusioned as I was when they discover how the title is earned.
So if the title is going to be used, it does make sense to find a more meaninful way of earning it.
Ideally it ought to reflect how good you are with women in real life, but that is simply impossible.
An outright vote as to who gets the title could work, but that sort of thing can derail the focus of the board, and is liable to encourage too much cliquishness and politicking.
The most workable barometer, IMO, would be to bestow the title on those who have posted a lot of GOOD posts. That could come, indirectly, from a sort of voting process by way of the number of posts that got bumbed into the archive.
I wouldn't mind it if there were technically an *easy* way for all the regulars (regulars only) to assign a usefulness grade or "number of stars" to each post, and then that post would end up with some average rating.
For one thing, I'd click on the five star posts first when reading through old posts. Also the number of four & five star posts could serve as the the basis for any special titles.
Ultimately this is mostly for the benefit of newbies, because the regulars are sure to find out for themselves whose advice they respect and whose they don't. However, if you set it up this way it would at least provide an extra incentive for people to post GOOD stuff--quality, not just quantity.
Whew...that turned into a long post!
DeepBlue
trickynick
Master Don Juan
Over 1500 posts at girlproblems.com! A master dork indeed. If it's the same guy I am thinking of, he has bragged about it here before too!Originally posted by Ralfus:
I've seen I dork at girlproblems.com with over 1500 posts!!!
You think he is a "master"?
Ralfus
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You either own the game or it owns you!
[This message has been edited by trickynick (edited 02-13-2002).]
PoachR75
Senior Don Juan
he he