I was reading about how more effeminine men are attracted to more masculine women but I cant understand. I can totally see how alot of guys act feminine but I realy cant think of girls who act masculine, can someone give an example or something?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
masculine women?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PuertoRican_Lover
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Just look at the characters in the TV sitcoms "Everybody loves raymond" and "King of Queens". The men are submissive and supplicating to the demands and threats of their masculine wives who are the head of the household! A woman being the head of the household is a very unnatural position for the female to be in.
( . )( . )
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yep, apart from the obvious physical differences masculine women have, this is the other kind and is spot on BUT these chicks are not inherently masculine and will change behaviour as soon as a real man comes along, they are only like that because the puzzy-man lets them .Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Just look at the characters in the TV sitcoms "Everybody loves raymond" and "King of Queens". The men are submissive and supplicating to the demands and threats of their masculine wives who are the head of the household! A woman being the head of the household is a very unnatural position for the female to be in.
mateo_g
Don Juan
Your spine goes right up there with your mind, heart, and balls. No backbone = getting walked all over.
Do you mean masculine traits like this one time I knew this girl, she was not the prettiest girl but I was looking at her drivers license and I didn't think it was her license till she pointed it out that it was her but I actually thought it was a guy since she had her hair pulled back so I couldnt see she had long hair. Do these women who if you don't see they have long hair tend to be more masculine?Originally posted by ( . )( . )
yep, apart from the obvious physical differences masculine women have, this is the other kind and is spot on BUT these chicks are not inherently masculine and will change behaviour as soon as a real man comes along, they are only like that because the puzzy-man lets them .
I don't see how someone can define a women as masculine just by her looks eather, what makes a women without saying a word be "ultra feminine" or more masculine? I was reading Pooks post awhile ago on how ultra feminine women attract the most men and how masculine men attract the most women and was wondering how someone can tell if a womens really feminine or not just by looks.
PS: I really appreciate both of your replies so far and I have to admit those women on both those shows literally have to the THE biggest insane turn-off you can imagine.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mateo_g
Don Juan
Masculine can be a state of mind. You see many homosexual men, who you might consider muscular, are totally not masculine. And also, you see lesbian bull dykes as the other extreme of gender bending. Somewhere in the middle is the woman who has a masculine attitude, and wants nothing more than a man she can walk all over. If you have a backbone, you and she will quickly learn the relationship won't last.
Now there are women who may look masculine, but that doesn't mean they have a masculine attitude. Some girls are build thicker than others, but have great femmine attitudes. Not that I find that attractive, but I'm sure some guys do.
Now there are women who may look masculine, but that doesn't mean they have a masculine attitude. Some girls are build thicker than others, but have great femmine attitudes. Not that I find that attractive, but I'm sure some guys do.
I agree with you guys. This is the reason so many become unhappy in their relationships. They don't want to be the dominant person in the household. It goes back to evolution. The man is supposed to be the "man" and take charge. This is a very somewhat unnatural position for a woman to be in. That's why these women end up cheating on their husband or boyfriend when somen manly man comes along and makes them feel 'feminine' again. This is the position they feel comfortable and more natural in. They might say they like being in control, but subconsciously they want a dominant person over them. It's comforting to them that you're going to be there to protect them. This is why you should tell any guy in your family who supplicates and let's the woman have control to take back the power quick, or some dude will come along and sweep her off her feet. You know the guys in your family or some of your friends for that matter. At least give some good DJ advice to them as a friend.
Champ
Champ
Feminism has destroyed marriages in this country. Is it really a coincidence that as feminism and womens rights came along, at the exact same time, the standard "Leave it to ******" household disintegrated?
Nature never intended for women to run the household. For tens of thousands of years, thats the way it was. Our views can't change biology.
Masculine women are nasty. Short haircuts, mustaches, haha.
It's all about polarity. You've got the balls, and she's got the pu**y. It's never going to change.
Nature never intended for women to run the household. For tens of thousands of years, thats the way it was. Our views can't change biology.
Masculine women are nasty. Short haircuts, mustaches, haha.
It's all about polarity. You've got the balls, and she's got the pu**y. It's never going to change.
Feminism has destroyed marriages in this country. Is it really a coincidence that as feminism and womens rights came along, at the exact same time, the standard "Leave it to ******" household disintegrated?
Nature never intended for women to run the household. For tens of thousands of years, thats the way it was. Our views can't change biology.
Masculine women are nasty. Short haircuts, mustaches, haha.
It's all about polarity. You've got the balls, and she's got the pu**y. It's never going to change.
As the world becomes more white collar, people lose their natural masculine and feminine traits.
Nature never intended for women to run the household. For tens of thousands of years, thats the way it was. Our views can't change biology.
Masculine women are nasty. Short haircuts, mustaches, haha.
It's all about polarity. You've got the balls, and she's got the pu**y. It's never going to change.
As the world becomes more white collar, people lose their natural masculine and feminine traits.
I think there are more masculine(in the way they act) women now adays, and it probably has to do with the changes in society. Women don't need men for self defense and hunting purposes anymore. It's easy to take charge when you can just drive to the grocery store for food, but when you have to hunt that food it isn't as easy to ***** and moan at your husband because you may end up starving. I'm all for equal rights, but there is a misconception that men and women are the same. It just isn't true. Men and women are generally better suited for different jobs.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Chillin Dillin, for the record, a feminine woman is one who follows her inbred submissive nurturing and comforting nature. A masculine woman is one who rejects these innate characteristics, for whatever reason, and tries to transform herself into an aggressive dominate controlling creature without regard to the male's proper standing in societal matters.
A child needs a mother who is 'nurturing' or else the child suffers!
A husband needs a woman who will 'comfort' him when he returns home from his daily toil, to provide for and protect his family - when the husband is overburdened and stressed then the entire family suffers.
Do you see how the typical American woman (hor) has gone outside of her nature and her proper role in the family and as a result has wreaked havoc and left devastation in her path?
A child needs a mother who is 'nurturing' or else the child suffers!
A husband needs a woman who will 'comfort' him when he returns home from his daily toil, to provide for and protect his family - when the husband is overburdened and stressed then the entire family suffers.
Do you see how the typical American woman (hor) has gone outside of her nature and her proper role in the family and as a result has wreaked havoc and left devastation in her path?
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I enjoy "King of Queens" and I think Leah Remini is hot.
I wouldnt say shes anywhere near as bad as Debra on Raymond as far as masculinity goes.
On the show Cari works and still makes dinner for Doug and Arthur each night, and puts up with Dougs antics week after week.
King of Queens rocks.
I wouldnt say shes anywhere near as bad as Debra on Raymond as far as masculinity goes.
On the show Cari works and still makes dinner for Doug and Arthur each night, and puts up with Dougs antics week after week.
King of Queens rocks.
King of Queens is trash... no hot woman like that would marry a fat AFC UPS driver... it is BS that is helping to ruin us! But I digress...
Dillin - all you have to do is look at the so called "gay marriages" going on between lesbians... have you seen any of those shown on TV? THey are all d1kish to the extreme.. there are no hot feminine woman getting lesbian marriage lisences... all you guys who think of lesbians from PENTHOUSE should take a look at the real life lesbians on TV, like Rosie O'donnell... that is a MASCULINE woman!!
ENough to make me puke my guts out and volunteer for a tour in IRAQ!!!!
Dietzcoi
Dillin - all you have to do is look at the so called "gay marriages" going on between lesbians... have you seen any of those shown on TV? THey are all d1kish to the extreme.. there are no hot feminine woman getting lesbian marriage lisences... all you guys who think of lesbians from PENTHOUSE should take a look at the real life lesbians on TV, like Rosie O'donnell... that is a MASCULINE woman!!
ENough to make me puke my guts out and volunteer for a tour in IRAQ!!!!
Dietzcoi
Again, I agree on these points with you guys. It's not really that these women 'look' masculine, it's just that they have male qualities that we are disgusted by. I know for myself, I am very attracted to very feminine qualities in a woman. And, if a woman who starts out acting all submissive and feminine to get my attention and then a few months down the road she starts to try to manipulate and control (dominate) me, I get very turned off by her actions. Thats not what qualities I found attractive in her in the first place, so why start acting like a man now! See guys, men and women are different. She's a woman and we're men therefore we're opposite, that's why were attracted to each other, plain and simple. Nature intended for us to be opposite, that's why we attract. Men are missing something in themselves and women are missing something. We are looking to fill these missing pieces and the opposite sex is supposed to compliment the difference. A man is supposed to be manly and full of testosterone, therefore he is going to be attracted to the opposite; a very feminine, somewhat submissive woman to compliment his manliness. It's when these women cross over into the more masculine qualities that the line becomes blurry. Society is trying to blur the lines with these shows and femininsm, but we need to seize back some control over our own manhood!
Champ
Champ
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Life-Trainee
Master Don Juan
Haha, I know a manly chick like that. She's pretty hot, dresses and looks like a girl. Her behavior resembles of a man's. Very dominating, blunt and seems to go for the AFC type guys. Go figure.
It's really scary because most AFC guys I know there girlfriends TOTALLY dominate them, there girlfriends act like guys it's so gross. Some of these girls actually look pretty hot but they are like freaking guys.Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Haha, I know a manly chick like that. She's pretty hot, dresses and looks like a girl. Her behavior resembles of a man's. Very dominating, blunt and seems to go for the AFC type guys. Go figure.
Ever notice how AFC's always end up with the most masculine chicks you can imagine? Do you think if these same women who walk all over there AFC boyfriends were around a real man they would actually act more like women?
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
A real man would beat her ass to a pulp - thus the high domestic violence occurrences in America!!!Originally posted by dillin
Ever notice how AFC's always end up with the most masculine chicks you can imagine? Do you think if these same women who walk all over there AFC boyfriends were around a real man they would actually act more like women?
LMAO! Guess that's what happens when a girl tries to act masculine with a "real man" huh?Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
A real man would beat her ass to a pulp - thus the high domestic violence occurrences in America!!!