Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
yaaa...no its not. That's called being fresh, clean, well put together, on point, looking like a player, stylin on you bro you mad? or just plain looking good. The only real difference between a metrosexual and a gay is who they have sex with. Didn't they used to call it being a Dandy?Gray The Prince said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I get my nails done once a week, get a massage once a week, i have a mike tysonesque high voice in real life, i don't look like i sound. i shop at bath and body works, more than my girl does actually, she borrows my **** often. **** smells good man.great place to meet women too.IamJosan said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
long story short i was in bath and body works a few years ago, buying some **** when they have their once a year huge sale in the summer, this dude was in there and he made a comment on my shirt he liked it, asked where I got it from, and he seemed cool. i mean he wasn't walking around with his shirt tied or **** like that, wasn't a flaming homo. dude introduced himself i introduced myself, we start talking,pretty cool dude. then out the blue like 5 minutes later he is like, "do you get down". I had to think about it.. iw as like. no i don't. Honestly I can't knock the hustle. just as long as when i say no you stop. but i was curious, so i asked him, hypothetically, let's say I did get down. so like, what happens next lol? I mean what exactly is get down protocol? lol. he laughed, i laughed,and we parted ways.IamJosan said:Nope I didn't. So I guess it happens to you a lot haha. It's all good. You got your girl and you know you're not gay so that's all that matters.
LMAO! WOW! I know how you feel though. I was in West Hollywood one night, and this huge black guy was hitting on me! As soon as I walked into the store, he looked at me and said 'you're cute.' It was soooo funny! HAHAbackbreaker said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.