“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Gray The Prince said:
A mtero is a guy who is simply cleaner and dresses somewhat better a typical guy.
yaaa...no its not. That's called being fresh, clean, well put together, on point, looking like a player, stylin on you bro you mad? or just plain looking good. The only real difference between a metrosexual and a gay is who they have sex with. Didn't they used to call it being a Dandy?

Compare and contrast.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dandy

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metro_sexual
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Warrior74 said:
yaaa...no its not. That's called being fresh, clean, well put together, on point, looking like a player, stylin on you bro you mad? or just plain looking good. The only real difference between a metrosexual and a gay is who they have sex with. Didn't they used to call it being a Dandy?

Compare and contrast.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dandy

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metro_sexual
That's what I learned a metro was. A dude that got his nails done, went to spas and overall did things that are usually seen as slightly more girly.
 

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To me, a metrosexual is a guy who goes beyond the average guy into taking care of himself. For example, doing his nails, getting eyebrows done, etc. I see it a lot. Even those guys that have really high pitched voices and move and act gay, but they're actually not gay.

I think the whole attraction thing today comes down to being androgenous. I took a sex class in University last year and studies show that we are attracted to androgenous people.
 

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IamJosan said:
To me, a metrosexual is a guy who goes beyond the average guy into taking care of himself. For example, doing his nails, getting eyebrows done, etc. I see it a lot. Even those guys that have really high pitched voices and move and act gay, but they're actually not gay.

I think the whole attraction thing today comes down to being androgenous. I took a sex class in University last year and studies show that we are attracted to androgenous people.
I get my nails done once a week, get a massage once a week, i have a mike tysonesque high voice in real life, i don't look like i sound. i shop at bath and body works, more than my girl does actually, she borrows my **** often. **** smells good man.great place to meet women too.
 

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backbreaker said:
I get my nails done once a week, get a massage once a week, i have a mike tysonesque high voice in real life, i don't look like i sound. i shop at bath and body works, more than my girl does actually, she borrows my **** often. **** smells good man.great place to meet women too.
Do people often mistake you for being gay?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you must have no;t read my get down protocol post i made a while back lol
 

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backbreaker said:
you must have no;t read my get down protocol post i made a while back lol
Nope I didn't. So I guess it happens to you a lot haha. It's all good. You got your girl and you know you're not gay so that's all that matters. :)
 

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IamJosan said:
Nope I didn't. So I guess it happens to you a lot haha. It's all good. You got your girl and you know you're not gay so that's all that matters. :)
long story short i was in bath and body works a few years ago, buying some **** when they have their once a year huge sale in the summer, this dude was in there and he made a comment on my shirt he liked it, asked where I got it from, and he seemed cool. i mean he wasn't walking around with his shirt tied or **** like that, wasn't a flaming homo. dude introduced himself i introduced myself, we start talking,pretty cool dude. then out the blue like 5 minutes later he is like, "do you get down". I had to think about it.. iw as like. no i don't. Honestly I can't knock the hustle. just as long as when i say no you stop. but i was curious, so i asked him, hypothetically, let's say I did get down. so like, what happens next lol? I mean what exactly is get down protocol? lol. he laughed, i laughed,and we parted ways.

but yes it happens, i get either "oh you must be gay" from women on why i don't hit on them when they make it painfully obvious they want me to, and some guys push their luck with me.
 

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backbreaker said:
long story short i was in bath and body works a few years ago, buying some **** when they have their once a year huge sale in the summer, this dude was in there and he made a comment on my shirt he liked it, asked where I got it from, and he seemed cool. i mean he wasn't walking around with his shirt tied or **** like that, wasn't a flaming homo. dude introduced himself i introduced myself, we start talking,pretty cool dude. then out the blue like 5 minutes later he is like, "do you get down". I had to think about it.. iw as like. no i don't. Honestly I can't knock the hustle. just as long as when i say no you stop. but i was curious, so i asked him, hypothetically, let's say I did get down. so like, what happens next lol? I mean what exactly is get down protocol? lol. he laughed, i laughed,and we parted ways.

but yes it happens, i get either "oh you must be gay" from women on why i don't hit on them when they make it painfully obvious they want me to, and some guys push their luck with me.
LMAO! WOW! I know how you feel though. I was in West Hollywood one night, and this huge black guy was hitting on me! As soon as I walked into the store, he looked at me and said 'you're cute.' It was soooo funny! HAHA

Then I went outside and his friend came up to me and he said, 'hey my friend wants to talk to you' haha so I told him to tell him to come outside. I wanted to see where this was going and so he kept on flirting and hitting me til I just told him I wasn't gay haha. I felt how girls feel it was pretty scary, especially since this guy was huge. I thought he was gonna pick me up and carry me away!
 

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women like guys with pretty features for one simple reason

they always think about what their kids would look like if they were knocked up by a certain guy...if the guys has big ears and a big nose chances are so will the kid and women lose sleep at night about having ugly kids lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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