Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
yaaa...no its not. That's called being fresh, clean, well put together, on point, looking like a player, stylin on you bro you mad? or just plain looking good. The only real difference between a metrosexual and a gay is who they have sex with. Didn't they used to call it being a Dandy?Gray The Prince said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I get my nails done once a week, get a massage once a week, i have a mike tysonesque high voice in real life, i don't look like i sound. i shop at bath and body works, more than my girl does actually, she borrows my **** often. **** smells good man.great place to meet women too.IamJosan said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
long story short i was in bath and body works a few years ago, buying some **** when they have their once a year huge sale in the summer, this dude was in there and he made a comment on my shirt he liked it, asked where I got it from, and he seemed cool. i mean he wasn't walking around with his shirt tied or **** like that, wasn't a flaming homo. dude introduced himself i introduced myself, we start talking,pretty cool dude. then out the blue like 5 minutes later he is like, "do you get down". I had to think about it.. iw as like. no i don't. Honestly I can't knock the hustle. just as long as when i say no you stop. but i was curious, so i asked him, hypothetically, let's say I did get down. so like, what happens next lol? I mean what exactly is get down protocol? lol. he laughed, i laughed,and we parted ways.IamJosan said:Nope I didn't. So I guess it happens to you a lot haha. It's all good. You got your girl and you know you're not gay so that's all that matters.
LMAO! WOW! I know how you feel though. I was in West Hollywood one night, and this huge black guy was hitting on me! As soon as I walked into the store, he looked at me and said 'you're cute.' It was soooo funny! HAHAbackbreaker said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.