"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Married?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I dont plan on getting married ANY time soon... If i do get married i would imagine that it would have to be in my late 20's or early 30's... But i'm not planning anything... ATM i am in a LTR and am happy the way i am for now... No plans on marrige
Laterz...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lots of people will say that... but alot of those people WILL probably end up getting married
But the truth is, is that having children is not as easy as it use to be... these days there are all these extra expences with computers, and technology etc, so having kid is ALOT more expencive to have these days, which is a HUGE turnoff to some people.... and most people will only get married because of kids. so there u go... thats probably why there is such a high number of people NOT wanting to have kids, but i promise you that if u had to make those 11 people millionares, most of them would WANT kids. Some people just cant afford to have kids, of they can, but then their own lifestyle will have to be sh!t compared to what it would be if they NEVER had kids. There are so many downfalls to having kids these days that people just dont think that its worth it to have them anymore. Its a sad case, but its reality. Laterz...