"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Married?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo
Master Don Juan
I dont plan on getting married ANY time soon... If i do get married i would imagine that it would have to be in my late 20's or early 30's... But i'm not planning anything... ATM i am in a LTR and am happy the way i am for now... No plans on marrige
Laterz...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lots of people will say that... but alot of those people WILL probably end up getting married
But the truth is, is that having children is not as easy as it use to be... these days there are all these extra expences with computers, and technology etc, so having kid is ALOT more expencive to have these days, which is a HUGE turnoff to some people.... and most people will only get married because of kids. so there u go... thats probably why there is such a high number of people NOT wanting to have kids, but i promise you that if u had to make those 11 people millionares, most of them would WANT kids. Some people just cant afford to have kids, of they can, but then their own lifestyle will have to be sh!t compared to what it would be if they NEVER had kids. There are so many downfalls to having kids these days that people just dont think that its worth it to have them anymore. Its a sad case, but its reality. Laterz...