"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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married women....

nacho

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so ive had to juggle 3 girls, 2 of them are married....
i dont think i want to keep the married womwn although theyre great in bed, but i think its going too far and it could somehow get out in the open..

is there a certain break up process i gotta do or do i just stop whatever im doing with them?? any help on this subject???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just tell the one you want to break up with that you've always been confused about your sexuality and you've figured out that you're gay and want to go plow mangina. Namean?
 

nacho

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your kidding right??
she may still be around the gatherings i go to. am i sticking to that story when she sees me with other GIRLS?!?
 

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Tell her you did a little rump ranging and didn't enjoy it. Why the **** do you even care what she thinks?

Just say, "Later *****". Easy as pie. Don't over complicate things. Remember KISS: Keep it simple, stupid!
 

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Just say, I don't feel like doing this anymore. It is over.

Easy.

Afterwards, ask Reagan what Sally would suggest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well, Sally says, "Who needs that ***** anyway!!! I'm the only woman you'll need. I don't ***** at you. I don't cry. I know how to cook And I can please you. I can be Christina Aguilera dressed up as a Catholic school girl."
 

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Originally posted by Reagan
Well, Sally says, "Who needs that ***** anyway!!! I'm the only woman you'll need. I don't ***** at you. I don't cry. I know how to cook And I can please you. I can be Christina Aguilera dressed up as a Catholic school girl."
ROFLMAO:crackup: :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by nacho
you all lost me...
Basically what we're saying is don't be a little *****. Just say, "It's over. Good bye. Have a nice life."
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by nacho
you all lost me...
Sally is his hand.
still ROFLMAO:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just tell her it's over, and disappear. She will understand.

So what if she sees you with another girl! It's not like she does not have someone else!
 

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Originally posted by nacho
so ive had to juggle 3 girls, 2 of them are married....
i dont think i want to keep the married womwn although theyre great in bed, but i think its going too far and it could somehow get out in the open..

is there a certain break up process i gotta do or do i just stop whatever im doing with them?? any help on this subject???
How can a guy "break up" with a woman if she's married to someone else? How the heck do you get into the frame of "dating" if she isn't available? You're fvck-buddies, why treat it as if it's anything else?
 
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