"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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refuelling79

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a new quest began a year ago...the lady is 7 years older than me..i met her in the office and then text her in the evening same day that i got some positive vibes,so we should get together sometime..prompt came the call..fixed up the meeting..met her in a coffee shop..this scenario of meeting went for 5-6 months..given india's scenario..bam..one day she told me that she was married..did not believe her and thought may be she wants a break up..said to her that it does not matter to me at all as i cared only about her..one day i took her home one day and had a bit of foreplay for which a little cajoling had to be done...took her home again and one day again...each time a lot of cajoling had to be done...then yesterday when i and her were alone, she again resisted my moves...i just put my hands off her and said that it was not acceptable..she replied that she refrains from doing "it" as she is married and she some time to be prepared...i said okay and then we had lunch together and dropped her off....
though i made my reasoning from her behaviour, i would like to know the views of more experienced esteemed friends of sosuave.com to cite their opinions regarding the same...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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refuelling79

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zarky my dear bro, i was also on that line of thought, but was a bit confused..could you please elaborate your reasons and suggest what strategy i should employ now...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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betheman

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your being messed with, you have wasted about 6 months of you life...for what? a bit of a grope? with a bit of a nutjob?
 

refuelling79

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my dear fellow buddies haven't read the text i posted in the thread carefully...i took her home thrice in six months and pardon me for not telling before..we had only 2 dates before that...on the first date i paid and on the second she paid...in the meanwhile, i was also dating other women..so i think now my buddies will change the opinion about myself wasting a hell lot of time..:)
 

runner83

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Depends if your definition of foreplay includes her sucking your ****.

If not, you're wasting time.

A couple of years back, I got involved with a married woman from my office. Started with an e-mail spark and went from there.

Blowing your load inside a married woman is an incredible feeling.

Then after a month or so, she "remembered she was married". Wanted to keep in touch as friends, but I wasn't having any of that ****.

Fortunately, I was working away from the office on a temporary 6 month assignment and by the time I came back, she had gone (as she was only a temp in the first place).

Last thing I heard, she and her husband had a son, and I had moved on, so it all worked out well in the end.
 

Falcon25

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The woman is married and you are still pursuing her? How about you stop being a stupid fuvking **** and get YOUR OWN woman? Get your own girl. It will make you feel better about yourself. You do understand that this is a life or death matter??? Are you this much of a weak man that you can't get your own girl? Come on man. What's the matter with you. Married women are off limits.
 
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