"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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refuelling79

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a new quest began a year ago...the lady is 7 years older than me..i met her in the office and then text her in the evening same day that i got some positive vibes,so we should get together sometime..prompt came the call..fixed up the meeting..met her in a coffee shop..this scenario of meeting went for 5-6 months..given india's scenario..bam..one day she told me that she was married..did not believe her and thought may be she wants a break up..said to her that it does not matter to me at all as i cared only about her..one day i took her home one day and had a bit of foreplay for which a little cajoling had to be done...took her home again and one day again...each time a lot of cajoling had to be done...then yesterday when i and her were alone, she again resisted my moves...i just put my hands off her and said that it was not acceptable..she replied that she refrains from doing "it" as she is married and she some time to be prepared...i said okay and then we had lunch together and dropped her off....
though i made my reasoning from her behaviour, i would like to know the views of more experienced esteemed friends of sosuave.com to cite their opinions regarding the same...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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refuelling79

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zarky my dear bro, i was also on that line of thought, but was a bit confused..could you please elaborate your reasons and suggest what strategy i should employ now...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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betheman

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your being messed with, you have wasted about 6 months of you life...for what? a bit of a grope? with a bit of a nutjob?
 

refuelling79

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my dear fellow buddies haven't read the text i posted in the thread carefully...i took her home thrice in six months and pardon me for not telling before..we had only 2 dates before that...on the first date i paid and on the second she paid...in the meanwhile, i was also dating other women..so i think now my buddies will change the opinion about myself wasting a hell lot of time..:)
 

runner83

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Depends if your definition of foreplay includes her sucking your ****.

If not, you're wasting time.

A couple of years back, I got involved with a married woman from my office. Started with an e-mail spark and went from there.

Blowing your load inside a married woman is an incredible feeling.

Then after a month or so, she "remembered she was married". Wanted to keep in touch as friends, but I wasn't having any of that ****.

Fortunately, I was working away from the office on a temporary 6 month assignment and by the time I came back, she had gone (as she was only a temp in the first place).

Last thing I heard, she and her husband had a son, and I had moved on, so it all worked out well in the end.
 

Falcon25

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The woman is married and you are still pursuing her? How about you stop being a stupid fuvking **** and get YOUR OWN woman? Get your own girl. It will make you feel better about yourself. You do understand that this is a life or death matter??? Are you this much of a weak man that you can't get your own girl? Come on man. What's the matter with you. Married women are off limits.
 
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