Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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refuelling79

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a new quest began a year ago...the lady is 7 years older than me..i met her in the office and then text her in the evening same day that i got some positive vibes,so we should get together sometime..prompt came the call..fixed up the meeting..met her in a coffee shop..this scenario of meeting went for 5-6 months..given india's scenario..bam..one day she told me that she was married..did not believe her and thought may be she wants a break up..said to her that it does not matter to me at all as i cared only about her..one day i took her home one day and had a bit of foreplay for which a little cajoling had to be done...took her home again and one day again...each time a lot of cajoling had to be done...then yesterday when i and her were alone, she again resisted my moves...i just put my hands off her and said that it was not acceptable..she replied that she refrains from doing "it" as she is married and she some time to be prepared...i said okay and then we had lunch together and dropped her off....
though i made my reasoning from her behaviour, i would like to know the views of more experienced esteemed friends of sosuave.com to cite their opinions regarding the same...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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refuelling79

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zarky my dear bro, i was also on that line of thought, but was a bit confused..could you please elaborate your reasons and suggest what strategy i should employ now...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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your being messed with, you have wasted about 6 months of you life...for what? a bit of a grope? with a bit of a nutjob?
 

refuelling79

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my dear fellow buddies haven't read the text i posted in the thread carefully...i took her home thrice in six months and pardon me for not telling before..we had only 2 dates before that...on the first date i paid and on the second she paid...in the meanwhile, i was also dating other women..so i think now my buddies will change the opinion about myself wasting a hell lot of time..:)
 

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Depends if your definition of foreplay includes her sucking your ****.

If not, you're wasting time.

A couple of years back, I got involved with a married woman from my office. Started with an e-mail spark and went from there.

Blowing your load inside a married woman is an incredible feeling.

Then after a month or so, she "remembered she was married". Wanted to keep in touch as friends, but I wasn't having any of that ****.

Fortunately, I was working away from the office on a temporary 6 month assignment and by the time I came back, she had gone (as she was only a temp in the first place).

Last thing I heard, she and her husband had a son, and I had moved on, so it all worked out well in the end.
 

Falcon25

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The woman is married and you are still pursuing her? How about you stop being a stupid fuvking **** and get YOUR OWN woman? Get your own girl. It will make you feel better about yourself. You do understand that this is a life or death matter??? Are you this much of a weak man that you can't get your own girl? Come on man. What's the matter with you. Married women are off limits.
 
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