"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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married woman.

Jair213

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easily an hb8.5 she is 35(she's white)

anyhow im back to working again in the same cherry plant but now were packagin apple

wen the cherry was over all the co-workers planned out a day out to the club the last day of work, this hb showed up but without her husband she was dancing with one of my buddys and drinking, everytime he would game her, or escalate, she would tell him ''no my husband, i have a husband''

wen the season of apple is over there planning to have another day out to the club, is there anyway to get through this barrier that my buddy was facing?

btw i didnt go to the club that day but this time i am going, and im guessing she is going too again without the husband(hopefully)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just give her a sexy smile and say "That's Ok, I'm not the jealous type..." and just keep going...
 
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Geez, I just won't date married women. Intentionally ;-P Find someone else, but see if you can use the dummy for false competition or social validation.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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really against what you're trying to do. she has a husband - move on to someone else.
 

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i swear these older women target us. My friends mom is into me and shes married. Jeez you think marriage would actually mean something nowadays? Tell her to get a divorce so you two can bang on the reg.
 

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Lloyd.ambert said:
Geez, I just won't date married women. Intentionally ;-P Find someone else, but see if you can use the dummy for false competition or social validation.
ill play around with it a bit to see watt comes out of it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tictac said:
Doin' married women is for chumps.

There is always another woman.
i know man, not like i give a crap about her.. just tryna see were i could get too.
 

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I have to agree with Tictac...I have been slightly seduced by a soon-to-be married woman but I have resisted.

Look brah, you're just going to hit an uphill battle with these taken women. Some of them are slvtty and will cheat, others may have a weak point in their relationship -- as Jitterbug so easily put it once, "this is not the mark of a good woman".

You might not feel so good about yourself too knowing your hurting some other dude who thinks his wife is being faithful....we're supposed to help a bro out, knowwhatI'm sayin?
 

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yeah i hear ya i guess i just got swayed away by her looks she has such an amazing good big ass nice little waist, thick legs and nice boobs.. jajaja

ill stay away from married woman.
 
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