Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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married woman.

Jair213

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easily an hb8.5 she is 35(she's white)

anyhow im back to working again in the same cherry plant but now were packagin apple

wen the cherry was over all the co-workers planned out a day out to the club the last day of work, this hb showed up but without her husband she was dancing with one of my buddys and drinking, everytime he would game her, or escalate, she would tell him ''no my husband, i have a husband''

wen the season of apple is over there planning to have another day out to the club, is there anyway to get through this barrier that my buddy was facing?

btw i didnt go to the club that day but this time i am going, and im guessing she is going too again without the husband(hopefully)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just give her a sexy smile and say "That's Ok, I'm not the jealous type..." and just keep going...
 
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Geez, I just won't date married women. Intentionally ;-P Find someone else, but see if you can use the dummy for false competition or social validation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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really against what you're trying to do. she has a husband - move on to someone else.
 

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i swear these older women target us. My friends mom is into me and shes married. Jeez you think marriage would actually mean something nowadays? Tell her to get a divorce so you two can bang on the reg.
 

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Lloyd.ambert said:
Geez, I just won't date married women. Intentionally ;-P Find someone else, but see if you can use the dummy for false competition or social validation.
ill play around with it a bit to see watt comes out of it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jair213

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Tictac said:
Doin' married women is for chumps.

There is always another woman.
i know man, not like i give a crap about her.. just tryna see were i could get too.
 

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I have to agree with Tictac...I have been slightly seduced by a soon-to-be married woman but I have resisted.

Look brah, you're just going to hit an uphill battle with these taken women. Some of them are slvtty and will cheat, others may have a weak point in their relationship -- as Jitterbug so easily put it once, "this is not the mark of a good woman".

You might not feel so good about yourself too knowing your hurting some other dude who thinks his wife is being faithful....we're supposed to help a bro out, knowwhatI'm sayin?
 

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yeah i hear ya i guess i just got swayed away by her looks she has such an amazing good big ass nice little waist, thick legs and nice boobs.. jajaja

ill stay away from married woman.
 
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