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Don Juan
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Do I follow up?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Married Woman Buys Me Drink, Gives Me Her Number
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It is a gentleman's responsibility not to take advantage of another man's wife. We know women are crazy which is why we don't take advantage. That would embarrass our fellow man. Also, she will probably tell him and he will probably want you dead.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
Zapp Brannigan
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Don't. She's obviously trouble, and not worth the headache.
Tictac
Banned
Are you that desperate?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
Yeah just forget it.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
If a woman is seeing someone else at the time, doesn't matter if it's a boyfriend or her 30 years husband, STAY AWAY from her for your own peace of mind's sake. Trust us on that...
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Schedule a date with her then flake and block her #.. give her a taste of her own medicine lol
PeasantPlayer
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I use to think to myself nah don't do it be honorable. Cause its who I was, but I realized most of these dudes are douche bags and would do they same to me in the same situation
DaddyLongShanks
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Yeah but you didn't gain nothing but a s1utty h0e. Usually when a woman goes out like that she's spending her old mans money too.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thorninmyside
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If it were a random hookup on the spot, no names or numbers exchanged I probably would have been tempted to smash and dash, but getting involved in someone's life is just too messy to deal with.
zekko
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It's nice to see someone here honors the "Bros before hos" code, because it doesn't look like most here do. And you're right, she will probably tell him.bigneil said:
It might not be condoning their behavior, but it certainly is enabling it.Pena said:
YawataNoKami
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There is a refrain in Puerto Rico "mujer casada huele a cuchillo y a bala(married women smells like knives and bullets)". Just walk away.
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I'm good.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Well, I sussed her plan.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.