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Do I follow up?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Married Woman Buys Me Drink, Gives Me Her Number
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It is a gentleman's responsibility not to take advantage of another man's wife. We know women are crazy which is why we don't take advantage. That would embarrass our fellow man. Also, she will probably tell him and he will probably want you dead.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
Zapp Brannigan
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Don't. She's obviously trouble, and not worth the headache.
Tictac
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Are you that desperate?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
Yeah just forget it.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
If a woman is seeing someone else at the time, doesn't matter if it's a boyfriend or her 30 years husband, STAY AWAY from her for your own peace of mind's sake. Trust us on that...
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Schedule a date with her then flake and block her #.. give her a taste of her own medicine lol
PeasantPlayer
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I use to think to myself nah don't do it be honorable. Cause its who I was, but I realized most of these dudes are douche bags and would do they same to me in the same situation
DaddyLongShanks
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Yeah but you didn't gain nothing but a s1utty h0e. Usually when a woman goes out like that she's spending her old mans money too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thorninmyside
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If it were a random hookup on the spot, no names or numbers exchanged I probably would have been tempted to smash and dash, but getting involved in someone's life is just too messy to deal with.
zekko
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It's nice to see someone here honors the "Bros before hos" code, because it doesn't look like most here do. And you're right, she will probably tell him.bigneil said:
It might not be condoning their behavior, but it certainly is enabling it.Pena said:
YawataNoKami
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There is a refrain in Puerto Rico "mujer casada huele a cuchillo y a bala(married women smells like knives and bullets)". Just walk away.
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I'm good.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Well, I sussed her plan.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.