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Do I follow up?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Married Woman Buys Me Drink, Gives Me Her Number
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It is a gentleman's responsibility not to take advantage of another man's wife. We know women are crazy which is why we don't take advantage. That would embarrass our fellow man. Also, she will probably tell him and he will probably want you dead.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
I would have had an extra 5 or so beauties in my day had I not followed this rule, and I kicked myself over some of them, but I still followed that rule.
Zapp Brannigan
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Don't. She's obviously trouble, and not worth the headache.
Tictac
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Are you that desperate?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
old married dude
Senior Don Juan
Yeah just forget it.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
She probably just needed some validation from you to let her know she's still "got it" or whatever.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
If a woman is seeing someone else at the time, doesn't matter if it's a boyfriend or her 30 years husband, STAY AWAY from her for your own peace of mind's sake. Trust us on that...
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
Schedule a date with her then flake and block her #.. give her a taste of her own medicine lol
PeasantPlayer
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I use to think to myself nah don't do it be honorable. Cause its who I was, but I realized most of these dudes are douche bags and would do they same to me in the same situation
DaddyLongShanks
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Yeah but you didn't gain nothing but a s1utty h0e. Usually when a woman goes out like that she's spending her old mans money too.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thorninmyside
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If it were a random hookup on the spot, no names or numbers exchanged I probably would have been tempted to smash and dash, but getting involved in someone's life is just too messy to deal with.
zekko
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It's nice to see someone here honors the "Bros before hos" code, because it doesn't look like most here do. And you're right, she will probably tell him.bigneil said:
It might not be condoning their behavior, but it certainly is enabling it.Pena said:
YawataNoKami
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There is a refrain in Puerto Rico "mujer casada huele a cuchillo y a bala(married women smells like knives and bullets)". Just walk away.
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I'm good.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
I had (this is an approximate guess) 15 or 16 women approach me in the last couple of days alone.
She's a cool gal, very interesting, but it's nice to know I have plenty of options.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Well, I sussed her plan.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.
It was to buy both of us drinks, get us drunk, have "drunk sex" and have plausible deniability the next morning.
Unfortunately, I didn't drink, first of all.
And second of all, got ****blocked by some fat guy and was too polite to work my way back in or fight for this girl.
All morality aside, I didn't play the game the way it was meant to be played.