"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Married Red Pill men, do y'all regret it?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Masculinity
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Living together is another monster. The dynamic changes completely and people get comfortable.
My advice:
-Don't get married; you can do everything a married couple does, without getting married.
-Most people get married because of societal expectations and lack of planning, not true desire.
-Look up whether you live in a state (U.S.) that recognizes Common Law Marriage. Some states consider you married if you live with a woman for a certain period of time or more, even if you did not marry voluntarily.
-Look up the statistics on failed marriages, who gets awarded children, who is seen as the victim, who usually loses, and who usually gets ripped off.
-We are not the exception to the rules; statistics, although not 100% correct, are pretty accurate.
-Divorce and the legal system are each multi-million dollar industries.
Enough said.
Know this as a matter of fact; women r never truly satisfied. They always want more. It's their nature.
U cannot win.
However u can acknowledge their superior abilities to manipulate you and act accordingly.
I wish you luck.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
How is this even close to what the OP asked for?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
R u married?
Used to be married.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Brought you here?
Took me 20 years to get here
Being single forces me to go to the gym. I know I won’t get laid unless I’m busting my azz. If I knew I could get laid by being lazy, I would never go to the gym and just eat McDonald’s all day.
Overall, I’m thankful I’m not married. I can’t deal with petty arguments about money etc. most women in California are raging feminists who are not submissive at all.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gamewise...I also imagine, scarcity and frame, also apply.
Would I ever marry again? Yes, but I would have to truly find someone I just couldn't be without. I recommend men not get married early if at all.
Australia and New Zealand are common law marriage places so as soon as your co domiciled that's it.
I think the main thing is to try and stay interesting people. As my mate says if you're not careful it'll become socks and sainsburys. Similar to those Living Dead guys you see being dragged around by their wives in your malls.
Men love routine women hate it. And make damn sure you pick a woman who is self entertaining. If we are just hanging out and I'm preoccupied my girlfriend will pick up a book or start looking at her share trading. If she was attention whoring on Instagram instead believe me I wouldn't keep her around
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
sounds like a cool chick!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your post assumes sex is automatic in a marriage. It isn't. In fact, it's one of the biggest complaints men have about being married. Getting fat will greatly exacerbate that problem. If she gets fat and you don't at least there's some competition anxiety that kicks in so you hopefully get laid more often. The worst case scenario though is a woman who gets fat and stops having sex due to feeling insecure. Unless she just had my kid I would start cheating on her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
FeelsbadmanTook me 20 years to get here
Just pulling ur leg
Ken Patric
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They never nag you for being too old for toys.
They help you wrap the Christmas gifts.
They're spontaneous in the shower
.They're honest and there for you in times of need.
They'll let you know when you're just not respecting their dietary needs.
This is why marriage is the best because you can do this. The other stuff? Blah.
They make all your greatest desires and dreams come true.
Together you keep up on that list of chores, like refilling the toilet paper.
They love spending time with the kids.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.