"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Married Red Pill men, do y'all regret it?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Living together is another monster. The dynamic changes completely and people get comfortable.
My advice:
-Don't get married; you can do everything a married couple does, without getting married.
-Most people get married because of societal expectations and lack of planning, not true desire.
-Look up whether you live in a state (U.S.) that recognizes Common Law Marriage. Some states consider you married if you live with a woman for a certain period of time or more, even if you did not marry voluntarily.
-Look up the statistics on failed marriages, who gets awarded children, who is seen as the victim, who usually loses, and who usually gets ripped off.
-We are not the exception to the rules; statistics, although not 100% correct, are pretty accurate.
-Divorce and the legal system are each multi-million dollar industries.
Enough said.
Know this as a matter of fact; women r never truly satisfied. They always want more. It's their nature.
U cannot win.
However u can acknowledge their superior abilities to manipulate you and act accordingly.
I wish you luck.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
How is this even close to what the OP asked for?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
R u married?
Used to be married.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Brought you here?
Took me 20 years to get here
Being single forces me to go to the gym. I know I won’t get laid unless I’m busting my azz. If I knew I could get laid by being lazy, I would never go to the gym and just eat McDonald’s all day.
Overall, I’m thankful I’m not married. I can’t deal with petty arguments about money etc. most women in California are raging feminists who are not submissive at all.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gamewise...I also imagine, scarcity and frame, also apply.
Would I ever marry again? Yes, but I would have to truly find someone I just couldn't be without. I recommend men not get married early if at all.
Australia and New Zealand are common law marriage places so as soon as your co domiciled that's it.
I think the main thing is to try and stay interesting people. As my mate says if you're not careful it'll become socks and sainsburys. Similar to those Living Dead guys you see being dragged around by their wives in your malls.
Men love routine women hate it. And make damn sure you pick a woman who is self entertaining. If we are just hanging out and I'm preoccupied my girlfriend will pick up a book or start looking at her share trading. If she was attention whoring on Instagram instead believe me I wouldn't keep her around
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
sounds like a cool chick!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your post assumes sex is automatic in a marriage. It isn't. In fact, it's one of the biggest complaints men have about being married. Getting fat will greatly exacerbate that problem. If she gets fat and you don't at least there's some competition anxiety that kicks in so you hopefully get laid more often. The worst case scenario though is a woman who gets fat and stops having sex due to feeling insecure. Unless she just had my kid I would start cheating on her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
FeelsbadmanTook me 20 years to get here
Just pulling ur leg
Ken Patric
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They never nag you for being too old for toys.
They help you wrap the Christmas gifts.
They're spontaneous in the shower
.They're honest and there for you in times of need.
They'll let you know when you're just not respecting their dietary needs.
This is why marriage is the best because you can do this. The other stuff? Blah.
They make all your greatest desires and dreams come true.
Together you keep up on that list of chores, like refilling the toilet paper.
They love spending time with the kids.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.