"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Married Red Pill men, do y'all regret it?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Masculinity
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Living together is another monster. The dynamic changes completely and people get comfortable.
My advice:
-Don't get married; you can do everything a married couple does, without getting married.
-Most people get married because of societal expectations and lack of planning, not true desire.
-Look up whether you live in a state (U.S.) that recognizes Common Law Marriage. Some states consider you married if you live with a woman for a certain period of time or more, even if you did not marry voluntarily.
-Look up the statistics on failed marriages, who gets awarded children, who is seen as the victim, who usually loses, and who usually gets ripped off.
-We are not the exception to the rules; statistics, although not 100% correct, are pretty accurate.
-Divorce and the legal system are each multi-million dollar industries.
Enough said.
Know this as a matter of fact; women r never truly satisfied. They always want more. It's their nature.
U cannot win.
However u can acknowledge their superior abilities to manipulate you and act accordingly.
I wish you luck.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
How is this even close to what the OP asked for?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
R u married?
Used to be married.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Brought you here?
Took me 20 years to get here
Being single forces me to go to the gym. I know I won’t get laid unless I’m busting my azz. If I knew I could get laid by being lazy, I would never go to the gym and just eat McDonald’s all day.
Overall, I’m thankful I’m not married. I can’t deal with petty arguments about money etc. most women in California are raging feminists who are not submissive at all.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Gamewise...I also imagine, scarcity and frame, also apply.
Would I ever marry again? Yes, but I would have to truly find someone I just couldn't be without. I recommend men not get married early if at all.
Australia and New Zealand are common law marriage places so as soon as your co domiciled that's it.
I think the main thing is to try and stay interesting people. As my mate says if you're not careful it'll become socks and sainsburys. Similar to those Living Dead guys you see being dragged around by their wives in your malls.
Men love routine women hate it. And make damn sure you pick a woman who is self entertaining. If we are just hanging out and I'm preoccupied my girlfriend will pick up a book or start looking at her share trading. If she was attention whoring on Instagram instead believe me I wouldn't keep her around
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
sounds like a cool chick!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your post assumes sex is automatic in a marriage. It isn't. In fact, it's one of the biggest complaints men have about being married. Getting fat will greatly exacerbate that problem. If she gets fat and you don't at least there's some competition anxiety that kicks in so you hopefully get laid more often. The worst case scenario though is a woman who gets fat and stops having sex due to feeling insecure. Unless she just had my kid I would start cheating on her.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
FeelsbadmanTook me 20 years to get here
Just pulling ur leg
Ken Patric
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They never nag you for being too old for toys.
They help you wrap the Christmas gifts.
They're spontaneous in the shower
.They're honest and there for you in times of need.
They'll let you know when you're just not respecting their dietary needs.
This is why marriage is the best because you can do this. The other stuff? Blah.
They make all your greatest desires and dreams come true.
Together you keep up on that list of chores, like refilling the toilet paper.
They love spending time with the kids.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.