"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Married Or Not Married??

leeman67

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Just curious to why a woman would tell you one time she is married. Another time she has a boyfriend and go back n forth wth that?

This very attractive woman that works in the spa area of my gym does this. There is definitely some chemistry between us, but I have hesitated to ask her out for this very reason of uncertain if she is married or not.

The last time it happened was just the other night. We were talking about how much we liked going to college basketball games. She stated to me Quote " Sometimes her Husband, boyfriend, whatever takes her" Unquote.

We got into talking about NHL games and I mentioned I have not been to a Pro hockey game yet.

I could have sworn she said "We" Should go sometime. Not "YOU"

Whats the deal here?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker

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it sounds like she is asking you out on a date.

take the earplugs off and listen next time.
 
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