"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Married Or Not Married??

leeman67

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Just curious to why a woman would tell you one time she is married. Another time she has a boyfriend and go back n forth wth that?

This very attractive woman that works in the spa area of my gym does this. There is definitely some chemistry between us, but I have hesitated to ask her out for this very reason of uncertain if she is married or not.

The last time it happened was just the other night. We were talking about how much we liked going to college basketball games. She stated to me Quote " Sometimes her Husband, boyfriend, whatever takes her" Unquote.

We got into talking about NHL games and I mentioned I have not been to a Pro hockey game yet.

I could have sworn she said "We" Should go sometime. Not "YOU"

Whats the deal here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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it sounds like she is asking you out on a date.

take the earplugs off and listen next time.
 
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