"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Married Or Not Married??

leeman67

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Just curious to why a woman would tell you one time she is married. Another time she has a boyfriend and go back n forth wth that?

This very attractive woman that works in the spa area of my gym does this. There is definitely some chemistry between us, but I have hesitated to ask her out for this very reason of uncertain if she is married or not.

The last time it happened was just the other night. We were talking about how much we liked going to college basketball games. She stated to me Quote " Sometimes her Husband, boyfriend, whatever takes her" Unquote.

We got into talking about NHL games and I mentioned I have not been to a Pro hockey game yet.

I could have sworn she said "We" Should go sometime. Not "YOU"

Whats the deal here?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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backbreaker

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it sounds like she is asking you out on a date.

take the earplugs off and listen next time.
 
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