"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Married Or Not Married??

leeman67

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Just curious to why a woman would tell you one time she is married. Another time she has a boyfriend and go back n forth wth that?

This very attractive woman that works in the spa area of my gym does this. There is definitely some chemistry between us, but I have hesitated to ask her out for this very reason of uncertain if she is married or not.

The last time it happened was just the other night. We were talking about how much we liked going to college basketball games. She stated to me Quote " Sometimes her Husband, boyfriend, whatever takes her" Unquote.

We got into talking about NHL games and I mentioned I have not been to a Pro hockey game yet.

I could have sworn she said "We" Should go sometime. Not "YOU"

Whats the deal here?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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backbreaker

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it sounds like she is asking you out on a date.

take the earplugs off and listen next time.
 
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