This type of story isn't true untill it happens ....and when it does, your life comes tumbling down.
Good point by the way: soon as there's a power dynamic where the man has the upper hand it becomes dicey...
Yet it remains a difficult thing: the Taliban prohibited women from working going to school ect and it literally costs Afghanistan billions as they cutting great female talents that would become great doctors, engineers and scientists.
It's never an easy subject...
I know. the strict cultures have some basic things right, but of course lots of other points not right.... by my lense.
I don't want to cage women. So many examples across my life with friends, family, and self. Many men will take puzzy from there own brother or relative, best friend, anyone. I have met a few men that don't and could, they are very cool people and in every case the most alpha you can imagine. Women are women. They are not men, we should not cast them as men and force them to do men stuff. I believe in equal value, but not being equal. The truth is very unpopular.
If a woman wants to be a Dr., that's terrific and I fully support it. I would not want her for an LTR, but would love to have her for a friend. The sexual dynamic in humans is what it is, and it takes up much more space in our body and mind than necessary if the design was for pure monogamy. She can not help being what she is any more than you or I can. She will be attracted to power albeit each woman will have a sort of tone of power she likes. We should not send someone who is precious to us into the hunting grounds as prey. Doing that is careless and very often results in her being caught.
Best case is she comes and lives in your world and under your protection. Not a prisoner, but as a mate. Before you can do that you have to level up yourself to be able to handle it. From your posts, you get that point in great detail.
So, she should be free to choose. The issue is that men have little or no honor in such things. They/we cry when it happens to us but sooner we are doing it to another.
There is no such thing as a non sexual friendship between men and women if they find the other attractive. It is Hollywood and gaslighting to believe that there is. I often hear men swear that they don't want to when in public, but every time in private the truth comes out. every time....
