"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marriage Counselling: Does it work?

Desdinova

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I've got a buddy who got married 10 months ago because she was pregnant (I know, a bad idea). Anyway, the arguements have escalated and she's thrown out the D word a couple of times already. He's been going to anger management classes and 5hit, but she's not doing a fvcking thing to help the relationship. He's currently staying with his father.

For those of you who have had counselling, did it have any kind of positive effect on your relationship, or did it do nothing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I haven't been trough it, but in the present cas, it's a lost cause. Tell him the D word is the only word he should know.
 

dietzcoi

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Mine did not.

And yes, it is mostly a ploy to bend the man to the woman's needs.

it seems to be the man who is wrong 95% of the time, unless you get a good counselor.

Even male counselors a like this. No shortage of CPT-SAVE-A-Hoe's in our society.

Dietzcoi
 

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411 on counseling

This is not a marriage forum!!......but........

Tell your buddy to go to www.retrovaille.org

It will help. I have done the counseling thing for years and I ended up getting divorced anyways. It helped for a while but not for the long haul
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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