"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Erik VL

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The only way I can see of dealing with the situation is always strive to be the best and keep flirting with other women. As long as the wife sees the guy is still capable of drawing the interest of other women, she should still be fighting for her man, but I don't know how that plays out in reality.
Or how about both parties working out and eating right so they stay attractive and energetic. A "platform" solution instead of a "game" solution to cover for the lack of a platform.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SteR

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Or how about both parties working out and eating right so they stay attractive and energetic. A "platform" solution instead of a "game" solution to cover for the lack of a platform.
Yea that'd be ideal
 

ubercat

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I don't know what the heck you guys do with your girls. I mean hiking, skating, badminton, fruit picking, swimming, etc. I don't have kids so I d be bored ****less if I didn't keep an active lifestyle.
 
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