"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Erik VL

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The only way I can see of dealing with the situation is always strive to be the best and keep flirting with other women. As long as the wife sees the guy is still capable of drawing the interest of other women, she should still be fighting for her man, but I don't know how that plays out in reality.
Or how about both parties working out and eating right so they stay attractive and energetic. A "platform" solution instead of a "game" solution to cover for the lack of a platform.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SteR

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Or how about both parties working out and eating right so they stay attractive and energetic. A "platform" solution instead of a "game" solution to cover for the lack of a platform.
Yea that'd be ideal
 

ubercat

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I don't know what the heck you guys do with your girls. I mean hiking, skating, badminton, fruit picking, swimming, etc. I don't have kids so I d be bored ****less if I didn't keep an active lifestyle.
 
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