Or how about both parties working out and eating right so they stay attractive and energetic. A "platform" solution instead of a "game" solution to cover for the lack of a platform.The only way I can see of dealing with the situation is always strive to be the best and keep flirting with other women. As long as the wife sees the guy is still capable of drawing the interest of other women, she should still be fighting for her man, but I don't know how that plays out in reality.