"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mardi Gras Pictures: Night 1

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Living only an hour from New Orleans (though traffic once you get to New Orleans during Mardi Gras week takes an hour to get through...) I decided to go down with a 'friend' and check out what was happening on Bourbon Street. We got up there, met with some of my friends, and all went to one of the parades - the first parade picture is from in front of my house, last Friday... the rest are New Orleans.

Oh, and a word about the plastic roses - they were her idea, and worked great. Wal-Mart sells them for $3/dozen... and when coupled with even a mediocre set of beads, normal girls will turn into lunatics exposing anything you want in hopes that you'll throw it down to them... As you can see, we were lucky enough to get a spot on a balcony overlooking Bourbon Street, which is no simple task in the mass confusion known as "Mardi Gras". Oh yeah, she likes girls too - this one might just be a keeper... ;)

Here's a preview of what you'll see inside... yes, I know, but I just got really, really bored.

http://www.jbspencer.com/sosuavemardigras.jpg

Now, on to the legal stuff. The following link contains material of an adult nature. If you are offended by nudity, particularly by the exposing of breasts by females of the age of consent (although the last few girls did look pretty young...) then you should not follow the link contained in this thread. Furthermore, if you are under the age of 18 (21 in some areas), or if your community has laws restricting your access to such material, you are not permitted to follow the link to my website's image gallery.


Okay, now on to the pictures!

http://www.jbspencer.com/mardigras05
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm putting that on my list of places to go when I turn 21.

Sweet pics... THe girl in picture 3 is hot.
 

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Originally posted by Paintballguy
Sweet pics... THe girl in picture 3 is hot.
That's what I was thinking.
 

Cheatz

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Nice site, but can someone please explain to me the culture of exchanging beads with exposure to breasts or other body parts? Do you win something at the end of you have the most beads or what?
 

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Nope, it just seems to be a tradition... nothing is won except for the beads themselves. With so many hundreds of thousands of tourists, it would be rather hard for anyone to determine who has the best beads.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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we dont question why women show boobs for beads. We just shutup and give them beads.

Note to self: go to new orleans for mardi gras
 

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I have to say, I think it's really ****ed up when for most of the year you go to a bar and you have to endure painstakingly boring conversation and laugh at people's stupid jokes just to have a SMALL CHANCE of getting action in the future (maybe not even in THAT night).

Or you can go to mardi gras, throw a set of 50 cent plastic beads, and get an all access pass.

WTF?

Alexi
 

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good pics Diablo
 

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Originally posted by sfalexi
I have to say, I think it's really ****ed up when for most of the year you go to a bar and you have to endure painstakingly boring conversation and laugh at people's stupid jokes just to have a SMALL CHANCE of getting action in the future (maybe not even in THAT night).

Or you can go to mardi gras, throw a set of 50 cent plastic beads, and get an all access pass.

WTF?

Alexi
Yeah, America's great, isn't it? :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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