You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
most claim all chicks can't be trusted. if you can't trust them then why even bother trying to control them with "game" if they can't be trusted to begin with.What you said doesn't make sense, for some people its not about trust or control its about banging the p u s s y out until they get bored of it and move on to another plate. It depends on the mans mind set really
Yep."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
It's like some of these dudes thinking they're "geniuses" at "game control" while admitting they don't trust any chicks anyway. If you can't trust these chicks for anything then you can't trust them to be "gamed" effectively. And if you can trust them to be gamed effectively you can't then say you can't trust any chicks.Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
Maybe, maybe not..Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
Most people are also lazy and would rather complain than make the effort to improve."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
I disagree with this post, its so simplistic and can't be accurately applied to in real life. You can be a trustwothy person and attract untrustworthy people"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
The world is built on untrustworthy people and lies. The only thing that's real is: food, medicine, and shelter. Anything else can be manipulated and twisted to benefit the cause/corporation/individual."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.If no chicks can be trusted then how can you trust in trying to control them with "game" when they can't be trusted to begin with. If you could control chicks with game then you can't claim chicks can't be trusted.
Fair enough. But bro if she was so "awesome" wouldn't she have stayed with you or moved so she could be with you? And how do you know you've never been cheated on? You aren't with these girls 24 hours a day. They don't tell you everything.Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
So you don't use game to try to control chicks to have sex with you.You don't trust any woman you have sex with yet have sex with them anyway.Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.
And that seems to increase lately. Sometimes I question myself where I am on here?... What actually becomes common sense on here seems to have nothing left in common with what this forums used to be like about 8 years ago.I don't know, you guys have been here so long and some statements seem naive.
For me you Statement actually proofs that you can not trust women the way you would trust a male friend.Basically, the idea is that women will always follow their emotions and do what "feels right", rather than what ACTUALLY is right.
By seducing a woman, you're playing with her emotions and opening her up. However, another with the same skills as you (or better) can do the same thing to her when you're not around.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.