"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Manosphere mystery #3 If you believe no chicks can be trusted

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If no chicks can be trusted then how can you trust in trying to control them with "game" when they can't be trusted to begin with. If you could control chicks with game then you can't claim chicks can't be trusted.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What you said doesn't make sense, for some people its not about trust or control its about banging the p u s s y out until they get bored of it and move on to another plate. It depends on the mans mind set really
 

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What you said doesn't make sense, for some people its not about trust or control its about banging the p u s s y out until they get bored of it and move on to another plate. It depends on the mans mind set really
most claim all chicks can't be trusted. if you can't trust them then why even bother trying to control them with "game" if they can't be trusted to begin with.

it's like a bank owner hiring convicted bank robbers or those he all believes will steal to be tellers etc. then trying to do all sorts of tactics to have them listen to him and be good employees when he knows they can't be trusted. idiotic
 

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.

There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
 

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.

There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
Yep.

I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.

Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yep.

I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.

Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
It's like some of these dudes thinking they're "geniuses" at "game control" while admitting they don't trust any chicks anyway. If you can't trust these chicks for anything then you can't trust them to be "gamed" effectively. And if you can trust them to be gamed effectively you can't then say you can't trust any chicks.

might as well be suspicious of everyone you invite to your house will steal. then come up with infinite tactics to try to prevent them from stealing. Dont trust them regardless of your prevention tactics as they either prove they can't be trusted or you never stop believing they can't be trusted. yet inviting them to hang out at your house whenever or inviting more and more you can't trust. stupidity and Insanity.
 

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The way i've interpreted "no girl is trustworthy" is how it relates to them being faithful/not cheating on you behind your back. I think girls are trustworthy in almost any other way.
 

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Yep.

I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.

Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
Maybe, maybe not..

This is unknowable. o_O

Most cheaters aren't exactly forthcoming. And since you can't follow someone around 24/7 to watch their actions this is NOT possible to know. Anyone claiming other wise is full of it. The most you can say about ANYONE male or female is that you trust them and don't think they've cheated, anything else is fairytales. Some people become experts at deception and these same people can pass lie detector tests very easily. Ever heard of sociopathic behaviour?
And the odds increase with each person you date that you will run across people like this.

Why do you think so many men are completely gutted when that special wife/fiancee/girlfriend cheats and they are caught off guard completely by surprise?
 

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It's about odds. Will running "game" guarantee you to find your perfect woman? NO. But of all options it gives you your best odds.
 

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To me, when someone says "no chicks can be trusted", it comes from a place of insecurity of getting hurt. It keeps a permanent divide. I probably fall a lot more in line with Pook's line of thinking, where I would rather throw myself out there after proper screening through plate spinning, than live scared...

You leap, and then you trust
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.

There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
This.

Water seeps its own level.
 

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.

There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
Most people are also lazy and would rather complain than make the effort to improve.

Those who are making the effort to improve must understand that it is a process which takes time. There is no such thing as an overnight success.
 

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
I disagree with this post, its so simplistic and can't be accurately applied to in real life. You can be a trustwothy person and attract untrustworthy people
 

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Women are naturally not loyal.... and they can not be controlled in modern western society. There really is nothing inconsistent with those two statements.

Just date and bang them. Have fun and just don't worry about things you can not control... and who knows... you might find that needle in a haystack, if that is what you want.
 

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"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.

There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.

if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
The world is built on untrustworthy people and lies. The only thing that's real is: food, medicine, and shelter. Anything else can be manipulated and twisted to benefit the cause/corporation/individual.

I've seen Harvard educated grads on the Dean's List who are Top Prosecutors for their respective Cities lie their ass off in before Court to win the case/save the City money. I've seen Stanford educated grads become CEOs of public companies and get awards from Prince William, only to trick the public when their company wasn't doing well, cash out, and then laugh at the public for being so dumb. Heck, we see it EVERYDAY with rich politicians lying their butts off to keep the money rolling in for their families and themselves. How many times has President Trump, the most powerful man in the world with his hand on the red button, LIED to the public for his own cause/ego/image?

If the highly educated and extremely powerful leaders of the free world are lying their butts off and deceiving us for their own benefit, how the heck do we trust anything a woman, who a master at manipulating emotions for her own benefit, says?

Even if you are trustworthy, you have to watch yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If no chicks can be trusted then how can you trust in trying to control them with "game" when they can't be trusted to begin with. If you could control chicks with game then you can't claim chicks can't be trusted.
Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.

Yep.

I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.

Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
Fair enough. But bro if she was so "awesome" wouldn't she have stayed with you or moved so she could be with you? And how do you know you've never been cheated on? You aren't with these girls 24 hours a day. They don't tell you everything.

How do you know which women are "high quality" before you "game" them. What is considered high quality? A medical doctor who cheats or a Gap employee who doesn't?

I don't know, you guys have been here so long and some statements seem naive. Or maybe I've just seen too much about what women can do.
 

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Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.
So you don't use game to try to control chicks to have sex with you.You don't trust any woman you have sex with yet have sex with them anyway.

Do you even leave your house is the real question for you not "have sex with women" by typing on a forum.

Let's not act like game isn't about control to always get our way. Let's not act like women can't be trusted isn't spewed daily through forums, the manosphere etc. Let's not act like game is just about getting sex as if two people just walk up to one another and just walk off and have sex.

If the cult religion of "game" is strictly about sex it's doing men a horrible job as its like saying just have sex. Ignore looks, stds, who you get sex from, where, etc. then it's not "game" at all its simply reckless sex with low quality, go for anyone, escorts, crack *****s, in any shyt location you could get killed in etc. Have ZERO standards just get "sex".


You sound like a mental masturbator
 

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Though I think the "women can't be trusted" rhetoric is bs, I think understand what is being said.

Basically, the idea is that women will always follow their emotions and do what "feels right", rather than what ACTUALLY is right.

By seducing a woman, you're playing with her emotions and opening her up. However, another with the same skills as you (or better) can do the same thing to her when you're not around.

So that's what their saying, as I said it's bs as most men can't run game for sh!t.
 

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I don't know, you guys have been here so long and some statements seem naive.
And that seems to increase lately. Sometimes I question myself where I am on here?... What actually becomes common sense on here seems to have nothing left in common with what this forums used to be like about 8 years ago.
Reading the older posts from on there are most of the time much more enlightening and helping than this mostly narcistic inspired posts ourdays. Sad but true.
 

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Basically, the idea is that women will always follow their emotions and do what "feels right", rather than what ACTUALLY is right.

By seducing a woman, you're playing with her emotions and opening her up. However, another with the same skills as you (or better) can do the same thing to her when you're not around.
For me you Statement actually proofs that you can not trust women the way you would trust a male friend.
Somebody making decisions on how they feel are not stable nor trustworthy.
... And if anybody with who gives her the right feeling can make her open her legs, I would also say: not trustworthy.
Hypergamy itself is the only needed proof that women can not be trusted.
So either one says hypergamy is all BS or one must be the best option. And yes I know all you guys Arme so hight qualtity that there is no other better at game or plain simple a better choice for your girl. But honestly thinking this way is just narcistic self delusion. Good luck to all who want to trust women to the fullest.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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