Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
most claim all chicks can't be trusted. if you can't trust them then why even bother trying to control them with "game" if they can't be trusted to begin with.What you said doesn't make sense, for some people its not about trust or control its about banging the p u s s y out until they get bored of it and move on to another plate. It depends on the mans mind set really
Yep."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's like some of these dudes thinking they're "geniuses" at "game control" while admitting they don't trust any chicks anyway. If you can't trust these chicks for anything then you can't trust them to be "gamed" effectively. And if you can trust them to be gamed effectively you can't then say you can't trust any chicks.Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
Maybe, maybe not..Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
This."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
Most people are also lazy and would rather complain than make the effort to improve."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
I disagree with this post, its so simplistic and can't be accurately applied to in real life. You can be a trustwothy person and attract untrustworthy people"no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
The world is built on untrustworthy people and lies. The only thing that's real is: food, medicine, and shelter. Anything else can be manipulated and twisted to benefit the cause/corporation/individual."no chick can be trusted" is an excuse to not get in the game and get enough skills and value to find girls that can be trusted.
There are decent people out there. But you must be a decent person to find them. Most people aren't decent.
if you are untrustworthy, you'll generally only hang out with and meet untrustworthy people.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.If no chicks can be trusted then how can you trust in trying to control them with "game" when they can't be trusted to begin with. If you could control chicks with game then you can't claim chicks can't be trusted.
Fair enough. But bro if she was so "awesome" wouldn't she have stayed with you or moved so she could be with you? And how do you know you've never been cheated on? You aren't with these girls 24 hours a day. They don't tell you everything.Yep.
I hang out with a good crowd and have never been burned by a woman in my life. Every girlfriend I've had was awesome we just ended up breaking up over stuff like distance. I've never been cheated on.
Creeping on low quality slvts will make you jaded and feel like all women are trash. I only game high quality women. The result is that I haven't dealt with any BPD. My biggest obstacle is getting the women I want interested in me. I've never had to deal with trust issues with a woman, ever.
So you don't use game to try to control chicks to have sex with you.You don't trust any woman you have sex with yet have sex with them anyway.Bro this makes no sense. What does "trusting women" have to with "controlling them with game?" You don't run game so you can "control" her, you run game so she has sex with you.
And that seems to increase lately. Sometimes I question myself where I am on here?... What actually becomes common sense on here seems to have nothing left in common with what this forums used to be like about 8 years ago.I don't know, you guys have been here so long and some statements seem naive.
For me you Statement actually proofs that you can not trust women the way you would trust a male friend.Basically, the idea is that women will always follow their emotions and do what "feels right", rather than what ACTUALLY is right.
By seducing a woman, you're playing with her emotions and opening her up. However, another with the same skills as you (or better) can do the same thing to her when you're not around.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.