"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Manipulation and Persuasion

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Im looking for books/e-books on manipulation and persuasion. Any you guys suggest?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desert Fox

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Daddy The Pimp said:
48 laws of power
Sorry but this book is not that good. Half the stuff is common sense, the other half is garbage.

I suggest a book by Kevin Hogan. the book is the psychology of persuasion. Works wonders.
 

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Desert, maybe for you.

If you are already amoral ok, but for those naive people it´s a huge wake up call. I´ve become way more cunning after this book, I have to becareful not to take it too far because IT IS dangerous. Now I laugh when I see a "shark" trying to fool me as I know his tatics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SmoothTalker

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Influence by Cialdini. It's not too long or hard to understand, but at the same time based on tested and proven techniques.

Good regardless of whether you're trying to manipulate, or just want to learn the tricks sales people and others are using on you, so that you can resist them better.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Manipulation is a tool for the weak. The 10,000 threads on this site bemoaning manipulative women would testify.

I am an award-winning insurance agent, and I have never manipulated anybody to get a sale.

"Why should I take the hard road when I can just get another bag of tricks?"

And if you truly feel the world is out to pull the wool over your eyes and rip you off, that is just a reflection of your own inadequacies.
 

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Go to a book store and find any how to book concerning sales. Sales is the art of persuasion to a key.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
Manipulation is a tool for the weak. The 10,000 threads on this site bemoaning manipulative women would testify.

I am an award-winning insurance agent, and I have never manipulated anybody to get a sale.

"Why should I take the hard road when I can just get another bag of tricks?"

And if you truly feel the world is out to pull the wool over your eyes and rip you off, that is just a reflection of your own inadequacies.
Thank You. Im not talking about manipulating women, I already know how to seduce them. Most people don't want you to succeed and most will bring you down or give you the wrong advice on purpose. Ive witnessed it and have given the wrong advice. Ive also notice alot of people try to manipulate me, and I can see right through it. When your talking about another bag of tricks what exactly are you talking about?
 

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maybe these manipulation sites work as good as about PUA's sites.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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