"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Manipulation and Persuasion
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daddy The Pimp
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taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
http://www.xtrememind.com
this book
this book
These would be good places to start.
Desert Fox
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Sorry but this book is not that good. Half the stuff is common sense, the other half is garbage.Daddy The Pimp said:
I suggest a book by Kevin Hogan. the book is the psychology of persuasion. Works wonders.
Blue Phoenix
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If you are already amoral ok, but for those naive people it´s a huge wake up call. I´ve become way more cunning after this book, I have to becareful not to take it too far because IT IS dangerous. Now I laugh when I see a "shark" trying to fool me as I know his tatics.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Good regardless of whether you're trying to manipulate, or just want to learn the tricks sales people and others are using on you, so that you can resist them better.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
I am an award-winning insurance agent, and I have never manipulated anybody to get a sale.
"Why should I take the hard road when I can just get another bag of tricks?"
And if you truly feel the world is out to pull the wool over your eyes and rip you off, that is just a reflection of your own inadequacies.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Thank You. Im not talking about manipulating women, I already know how to seduce them. Most people don't want you to succeed and most will bring you down or give you the wrong advice on purpose. Ive witnessed it and have given the wrong advice. Ive also notice alot of people try to manipulate me, and I can see right through it. When your talking about another bag of tricks what exactly are you talking about?Julius_Seizeher said:
thedude4242
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
PRMoon said:
Agreed. Read some Zig Ziglar, Tom Hopkins, and Brian Tracey.