"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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manchild

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The Goal
About a week ago I came across this site, and it has really made me think about where I'm at in my life and where I want to be. I've read some of the DJ bible, some the bootcamps and plenty of other posts. I believe its time to put what I've learned in use. My plan is to approach 350 women I don't know and attempt to get the number. In June of 2007 I'm moving to Alanta, Georgia so this will be my target date to reach 350 approaches.

About me
I'm a black, 19 year old male, living in Nashville, TN. I moved here from Detroit last year. I just gotta outta of a 2 year relationship with a girl I thought i was going to marry. I'm 5'11", 195lbs, athletic and about an 8 in looks.

Day One is today, I would really appreciate any advice, criticism or words of encourage ment. Help a brutha out. but other than that here I go...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skel

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your ex girl was 5"11 and weighed 195 lbs?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Themanthatcan

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manchild said:
have u meant any girls since u been down here?
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Na.Something about picking up chicks w/ family in the same building w/ you is just awkward.I did get a few looks but didn't act on them.Sometimes I'm pumped and feel like I can get any chick I want at the drop of a dime.Other times I'm tired and dont even feel like bothering.I'll do an approach tom. just to get out of my comfort zone.Happy Thanksgiving by the way, guys.
 
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Microphone Fiend

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Heyjose25points said:
As a fellow black man...Good Luck!
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ditto...Imma be checkin 2 see wats happenin so keep us updated
 
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Approach #1
This past wednesday I went to the mall to buy some shoes with the money I just got from my birthday. While I'm walking my moms calls me to tell that grandma is coming down to Nashville for thanksgiving. She asks me what I'm doing at the mall and I tell her I'm looking for some females. Now my mom is cool as hell and funny too. she tells me to find a pretty girl and let her talk to her. So I see a girl walking towards me, HB7.5. I start slowing as she get closer and she begins to do the same. I still have the phone in my hand

Me: How u doin today sweetheart?
HB7.5 Good, how are u?
Me: Today is fvckin beautiful! naw i messing wit chu, whats your name?
HB7.5: "HB7.5"
Me: Nice to meet you HB7.5, my name's Manchild.
HB7.5: Nice to meet u manchild
Me: Can u do me a favor HB7.5?
HB7.5 Favor? Wat chu mean?
Me: I need u to talk to my moms real quick( i started handing her the phone)
she looked puzzled as hell
HB7.5: well, I guess so.

from there on it was HB7.5 answering question from my mom

HB7.5: hello
HB7.5: my name HB7.5
HB7.5: I'm 22
HB7.5: I'm in college, I go to X University(the same school i go to)
HB7.5: yea he's cute
HB7.5: yep, his shoes are clean...bye


my mom had the girl laughing the whole time

Me: Sorry bout HB7.5 my moms silly as hell
HB7.5: Thats ok, she funny as hell too
Me: So u go to X Univerity, me too.
HB7.5: really, I think I might have seen u up there before
Me: yea u probally have
Me: listen, its been fun talkin to u , but i really need to get going. um... give me ur number sweetheart and so we can meet up on campus
HB7.5: oh ok

I don't know what to say about this one, I might have gotten lucky. i don't think I would try that again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm from Chicago but I was at TSU for Last year and the year before that, then I transferred to a school in closer to home....I found it tough to sarge at TSU. You either gotta be real intelligent, real thuggish, real stylish, or an athelete... Most of the girls at TSU don't want you unless your one of those types of people. Thats the way i saw it. manchild do you agree or am I wrong?
 
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MrStabAHo said:
I'm from Chicago but I was at TSU for Last year and the year before that, then I transferred to a school in closer to home....I found it tough to sarge at TSU. You either gotta be real intelligent, real thuggish, real stylish, or an athelete... Most of the girls at TSU don't want you unless your one of those types of people. Thats the way i saw it. manchild do you agree or am I wrong?
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I dont know man, its been pretty easy for me, maybe because i'm a intelligent, stylish athlete. lol
 
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