“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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manchild

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The Goal
About a week ago I came across this site, and it has really made me think about where I'm at in my life and where I want to be. I've read some of the DJ bible, some the bootcamps and plenty of other posts. I believe its time to put what I've learned in use. My plan is to approach 350 women I don't know and attempt to get the number. In June of 2007 I'm moving to Alanta, Georgia so this will be my target date to reach 350 approaches.

About me
I'm a black, 19 year old male, living in Nashville, TN. I moved here from Detroit last year. I just gotta outta of a 2 year relationship with a girl I thought i was going to marry. I'm 5'11", 195lbs, athletic and about an 8 in looks.

Day One is today, I would really appreciate any advice, criticism or words of encourage ment. Help a brutha out. but other than that here I go...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Skel

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your ex girl was 5"11 and weighed 195 lbs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Themanthatcan

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manchild said:
have u meant any girls since u been down here?
Na.Something about picking up chicks w/ family in the same building w/ you is just awkward.I did get a few looks but didn't act on them.Sometimes I'm pumped and feel like I can get any chick I want at the drop of a dime.Other times I'm tired and dont even feel like bothering.I'll do an approach tom. just to get out of my comfort zone.Happy Thanksgiving by the way, guys.
 

Microphone Fiend

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Heyjose25points said:
As a fellow black man...Good Luck!
ditto...Imma be checkin 2 see wats happenin so keep us updated
 

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Approach #1
This past wednesday I went to the mall to buy some shoes with the money I just got from my birthday. While I'm walking my moms calls me to tell that grandma is coming down to Nashville for thanksgiving. She asks me what I'm doing at the mall and I tell her I'm looking for some females. Now my mom is cool as hell and funny too. she tells me to find a pretty girl and let her talk to her. So I see a girl walking towards me, HB7.5. I start slowing as she get closer and she begins to do the same. I still have the phone in my hand

Me: How u doin today sweetheart?
HB7.5 Good, how are u?
Me: Today is fvckin beautiful! naw i messing wit chu, whats your name?
HB7.5: "HB7.5"
Me: Nice to meet you HB7.5, my name's Manchild.
HB7.5: Nice to meet u manchild
Me: Can u do me a favor HB7.5?
HB7.5 Favor? Wat chu mean?
Me: I need u to talk to my moms real quick( i started handing her the phone)
she looked puzzled as hell
HB7.5: well, I guess so.

from there on it was HB7.5 answering question from my mom

HB7.5: hello
HB7.5: my name HB7.5
HB7.5: I'm 22
HB7.5: I'm in college, I go to X University(the same school i go to)
HB7.5: yea he's cute
HB7.5: yep, his shoes are clean...bye


my mom had the girl laughing the whole time

Me: Sorry bout HB7.5 my moms silly as hell
HB7.5: Thats ok, she funny as hell too
Me: So u go to X Univerity, me too.
HB7.5: really, I think I might have seen u up there before
Me: yea u probally have
Me: listen, its been fun talkin to u , but i really need to get going. um... give me ur number sweetheart and so we can meet up on campus
HB7.5: oh ok

I don't know what to say about this one, I might have gotten lucky. i don't think I would try that again.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MrStabAHo

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I'm from Chicago but I was at TSU for Last year and the year before that, then I transferred to a school in closer to home....I found it tough to sarge at TSU. You either gotta be real intelligent, real thuggish, real stylish, or an athelete... Most of the girls at TSU don't want you unless your one of those types of people. Thats the way i saw it. manchild do you agree or am I wrong?
 

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MrStabAHo said:
I'm from Chicago but I was at TSU for Last year and the year before that, then I transferred to a school in closer to home....I found it tough to sarge at TSU. You either gotta be real intelligent, real thuggish, real stylish, or an athelete... Most of the girls at TSU don't want you unless your one of those types of people. Thats the way i saw it. manchild do you agree or am I wrong?
I dont know man, its been pretty easy for me, maybe because i'm a intelligent, stylish athlete. lol
 
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