"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man this is so painful, I'd never share this about myself, would you?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is bad, he's start off the marriage as a rescuer from the guy who wouldn't commit to his ex wife. He knows that and throw his life with her. More like a rebound marriage stuff, I feel sorry for him tho, that's why I don't mess with girl who unable to being alone with themselves for a moment in their life.. So fvcking miserable.
 

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Remove the Finnish parts and you have the standard American marriage.

She didn’t split because they were so different. Opposites like masculine/feminine attract.

When the sex fell off, what did he say, they rumble one every other month? Typical American marriage when her chemicals wear off. She can love you fully and still use the words “Not IN-love with him”, which is code for I don’t feel desire anymore, so I’m not into sex with you. No, I don’t want to fuk you. You repulse me sexually.

As far as the social paradigm is concerned, he didn’t do anything wrong. He was conditioned and trained properly. That’s what a man’s western training does to him.

Until a man steps out of the feminine imperative he is a robot worker who creates revenue and taxes and more importantly, serves women.
 
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