"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Man sues doctor for cutting off penis without consent
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Drdeee
Banned
Manhood costs 16 million dollars? They should have ruled like just because he asked money for it. This misunderstanding could easily be solved with a simple kitchen knife to doctors penis.
I dont think any sum of money could make this better. In fact it would just be a lot worse because dude would have all this money to attract hot babes, except he wouldn't be able to do JACK SH-T about it, except maybe eat some pvssy and get a horrible case of blue balls.
Poor guy. He should have at lest been given the option
- Prolonged, sexless life
- Sweet, merciful death
I suppose this article raises that tough question: What would you guys do given the choice?
Poor guy. He should have at lest been given the option
- Prolonged, sexless life
- Sweet, merciful death
I suppose this article raises that tough question: What would you guys do given the choice?
That's fcked up. Guy should have gotten the 16million. Whether or not the guy wants the cancer removed is totally up to him (his quality of life is not up to the Dr. to decide). He went in for a circumcision, not to have his penis fcking removed. HIS PENIS!!!!
I'd cut the Dr's penis off - and the Dr's hand.
I'd cut the Dr's penis off - and the Dr's hand.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The doctor's duty is to protect the patient's life, from themselves if need be. If his penis really was that cancerous, then the doctor did him a favor. We don't really know the situation since it's a newspaper article and usually written for sensationalism.
I still don't see how you need to perform emergency surgery. Could this not have waited ONE day? So the doctor has a chance to inform the patient? I'm PMing fuglydude, the resident medical expert.
I still don't see how you need to perform emergency surgery. Could this not have waited ONE day? So the doctor has a chance to inform the patient? I'm PMing fuglydude, the resident medical expert.
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Based on the article doesn't sound like he had his whole tool amputated...rather, just the affected parts.
Alle, thanks for the page hahaha.
I work in critical care and emergency surgery is something we see of all the time. Classic example was my last patient: Dude was a fresh post-op liver transplant with increasing vasopressor requirements, decreasing pre-load (as measured by CVP), symptomologically presenting w/ an acute abdomen coupled w/ high intra-abdomenal pressures and a falling hemoglobin... I know that sounds technical, but right now I gotta take a shiit really bad, so I'm just gonna finish this post fast. Basically he was bleeding into his abdominal cavity... The liver Tx team took him back, and hopefully fixed him up. This is what emergency surgery is... something that needs to happen RIGHT AWAY to protect life.
Unless the dude had flesh eating disease, gangrene, or some kind of crazy septic focus on his doodle, the surgery could have waited a day after the doc talked about it with the patient. I'm not sure if the guy was critically ill before the surgery or what though...
Alle, thanks for the page hahaha.
I work in critical care and emergency surgery is something we see of all the time. Classic example was my last patient: Dude was a fresh post-op liver transplant with increasing vasopressor requirements, decreasing pre-load (as measured by CVP), symptomologically presenting w/ an acute abdomen coupled w/ high intra-abdomenal pressures and a falling hemoglobin... I know that sounds technical, but right now I gotta take a shiit really bad, so I'm just gonna finish this post fast. Basically he was bleeding into his abdominal cavity... The liver Tx team took him back, and hopefully fixed him up. This is what emergency surgery is... something that needs to happen RIGHT AWAY to protect life.
Unless the dude had flesh eating disease, gangrene, or some kind of crazy septic focus on his doodle, the surgery could have waited a day after the doc talked about it with the patient. I'm not sure if the guy was critically ill before the surgery or what though...
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That's exactly right. The doctor could have waited until after the circumcision and consulted the patient about the possible cancer. It wasn't going to kill him immediately anyway.Fuglydude said:
The patient could have had a choice at least, and could have gotten a second opinion. Doctors can be wrong a lot of the times.
The patient was obviously a victim here, and I'm surprised the court didn't see it that way. Maybe his lawyer was incompetent. In fact, I'm surprised it didn't settle out of court.
Fuglydude: Just out of curiosity, how fast do you know of that cancer can spread? Let's assume his penis is so cancerous that it spreads as quickly as cancer possibly can. How long can you wait until it needs to be removed under emergency?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If the cancer was that life threatening, the guy would've had his cancer surgery scheduled way, way before circumcision even crossed his mind.
I'm a nuclear med student, cancer does not spread that quickly to the extent that the Doctor could not have informed the patient first.
I'm a nuclear med student, cancer does not spread that quickly to the extent that the Doctor could not have informed the patient first.
Fuglydude
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I really don't know a lot about cancer. I know that malignant melanoma is the fastest spreading cancer, however, I dont know how fast it is... its definitely nothing like necrotizing fasciitis (fresh eating disease), where the clinical picture can change rapidly in under an hour.Alle_Gory said:
Typically cancers spread as cancerous cells migrate to other tissues in the lymph and circulation. These cells are pretty much "invisible" to most standard easy to do medical tests like CT scans until they form detectable tumor masses.
If the pt's immune system is strong, many of the migrating cancer cells will never even cause a macroscopic tumor as they'll be killed off before they can proliferate.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lmao xDVice said:I hate it when that happens