I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's exactly right. The doctor could have waited until after the circumcision and consulted the patient about the possible cancer. It wasn't going to kill him immediately anyway.Fuglydude said:Unless the dude had flesh eating disease, gangrene, or some kind of crazy septic focus on his doodle, the surgery could have waited a day after the doc talked about it with the patient. I'm not sure if the guy was critically ill before the surgery or what though...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I really don't know a lot about cancer. I know that malignant melanoma is the fastest spreading cancer, however, I dont know how fast it is... its definitely nothing like necrotizing fasciitis (fresh eating disease), where the clinical picture can change rapidly in under an hour.Alle_Gory said:Fuglydude: Just out of curiosity, how fast do you know of that cancer can spread? Let's assume his penis is so cancerous that it spreads as quickly as cancer possibly can. How long can you wait until it needs to be removed under emergency?
I hate it when that happensDJ Logic said:Man sues doctor for cutting off penis without consent
lmao xDVice said:I hate it when that happens![]()