"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
rape is rape, whether its your wife or not.
come on guys, use common sense.
if your wife were to forcibly sodomize you against your will with a strap on are you saying that becuase your married thats not assault?
ill tell ya this much, i'm all for supporting men at every turn, but this guy isn't man, he's a dumb f*ck who deserves what he gets.
come on guys, use common sense.
if your wife were to forcibly sodomize you against your will with a strap on are you saying that becuase your married thats not assault?
ill tell ya this much, i'm all for supporting men at every turn, but this guy isn't man, he's a dumb f*ck who deserves what he gets.
Slow down there, chief. So far, I don't see anyone overtly disagreeing with you. With respect to me, I'd just prefer to use the term "assalt" in the case of a marriage over "rape". This is because I assume that a marital partner, by definition, does not object to having sex with whom they're married to.joekerr31 said:
BTW, your analogy with sodomy with a man, in a reverse case scenario, is not a very good one, IMO. For one, the anus isn't designed to be entered. Second, its illegal in many states anyway, including in my state. In AR, its a second degree misdeameanor (sp?). This law is applicable to the married as well.
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Refusing sex should be grounds for annulment. Little wh0re got in his wallet and stopped putting out.
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I agree, no sex means no relationship/marriage. You are 'friends' with your wife, thus she is no longer your wife...she's a 'roommate'. So, you would not be cheating if you went elsewhere, it would be a non-verbal agreement.bigjohnson said:
That being said, rape is rape. Come on guys! This is a no brainer.
Joekerr's analogy, shuttering as it is, is spot on. Rape is more about control and power, so if your wife bent you over with strap-on it would be about control and power. Just as you would be forcing yourself on your wife...er, roommate.
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I have to respectfully disagree. Sex should be an expected part of marriage. A man being sodomized is NOT an expected part of marriage, at least not in my area. Well, at least not until the divorce, which is essentially socially approved chainsaw sodomy.Mr.Positive said:
Was he wrong? Probably (I wasn't there) he was, but it's not rape. Assault would seem a more appropriate legal charge.
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I'll disagree, assualt is unlawful touching/contact of another person. Battery is the unlawful attempt of contact...bigjohnson said:
and rape is unlawful sexual intercourse without permission.
It doesn't matter if it's your wife, girlfriend, or neighbor. Rape is rape.
Yes, sex is an expected part of marriage, however rape is not sex. Rape if forceful and involves gaining power over another person. Big difference.
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That's all really pretty in some ivory tower someplace, the reality is that sex is supposed to happen between married people and proving "rape" vs all the other possible interpretations seems like legal masturbation. You make it seem like assault is no big thing. It is, particularly in a domestic situation.
Bottom line, is this is a semantics discussion. We're all referring to the same "act" as being illegal, its just what name we want to slap on it in this case. A rape is always an assault (unless you don't think rapes involve "unlawful physical attacks" (one definition of assault)), but an assault doesn't necessary include a rape. But "rape" is also more than an assault because the act of having sex itself with the victim is also unlawful in a rape case. So, to me, there is no such thing as unlawful sex, and only sex, in a marriage, thus there can be no rape (the 2nd unlawful component of rape is missing).
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Rape carries a stigma and social loading that I'm not sure is applicable in this case. To me they are both wrong but completely different.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Definitely, at least considering you can kill a person and get significantly less time. Total bullsh1t.The Sperminator said:
And if you want minimal jail time, shoot your spouse in the back with a buckshot while they're sleeping. After doing so, don't forget to wipe the blood streaming from his/her mouth with a tissue asking "Did that hurt???" with a crooked smile.
But if you want to be fined millions, go to jail and have the key thrown away, raise some dogs specifically for fighting them.
Sorry.... just venting
But if you want to be fined millions, go to jail and have the key thrown away, raise some dogs specifically for fighting them.
Sorry.... just venting
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Yeah, it's rape in the same way that a wife raiding her husbands wallet is theft. Try to get THAT one prosecuted.azanon said:
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OK.bigjohnson said:
I agree, however, this is a very dangerous discussion I think and it's way too easy for someone to read these posts and mis interpret what is being said.
There seems to be a 'my wife my property' sort of hint here, which definitely sends the wrong message.
To commit rape, only two pieces, ONLY TWO, must be in place.
1) Penile/vaginal penetration.
2) Unlawful consent.
That's it, and you have rape. As soon as the tip of your penis enters a woman's vagina, AND you have do not have her consent, you just committed rape.
By arguing semantics only confuses this fact, because the law does not care if it's your wife or not.
The gray area comes with the 'consent' part. For that only a good lawyer is going to help you.
I understand where you guys are coming from, however, for people reading this where it maybe a little unclear, it's important to realized just how serious this really is.
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I wasn't making an argument of legal fact, but of moral rightness or however you want to put it. Nor, as you note, am I in any way minimizing the guilt.
I do find it idiotic that society will essentially trap a guy like this when he should be able to tell her to pack what she can carry and get the hell out.
I do find it idiotic that society will essentially trap a guy like this when he should be able to tell her to pack what she can carry and get the hell out.
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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
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