"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man Reportedly Travels 1500 Miles to Surprise Girlfriend, Finds Her With Another Man

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ooops
 

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Surprise!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I should have quit you long time ago
Ohh yeah, long time ago
I wouldn't be here, my children
Down on this killin' floor
I should have listened, baby, to my second mind
Ohh, I should have listened, baby, to my second mind
Every time I go away and leave you, darling
You send me the blues way down the line, ohh
Babe, yeah
Treat me right baby
Oh my, my, my
Alright, take it down a bit
People tellin' me baby can't be satisfied
They try to worry me baby
But they never hurt you in my eyes
Said, people worry baby, I can't keep you satisfied
Huh, let me tell you baby
You ain't nothin' but a two-bit, no-good jive
I wwent to sleep last night, I worked as hard as I can
I bring home my money, you take my money, give it to another man
I should have quit you, baby

Oh,…
 

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Wolf sued and got songwriting credit subsequently, plus some money.
lol him and about ten other dudes.

Page's business strategy seems to have been to steal songs, and hopefully make enough money to pay off the lawsuits and still stay ahead.

Kind of a win-win when you think about it.

Everybody ends up making more money in the long run.
 

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Long distance.. Complete waste of fukin time.. Soon as a closer option is available..

Tour is over boyo!
 

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You'd be surprised with our own Sosuave 'Masters' having long distance relationship over the net.

As if writing novels of how they FEEL for her can replace the presence of real man.
Like i have always told guys who say "I'm in a long distance relationship."
I correct them and tell them "you don't have a girlfriend. You have a pen pal."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like i have always told guys who say "I'm in a long distance relationship."
I correct them and tell them "you don't have a girlfriend. You have a pen pal."

I suppose we have do define what long distance is.

If she is only an hours drive away, and is able to come over to see you a couple of times a week.. Then i wouldn't consider that long distance.
 

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LDR's don't exists, they're are a buffer to rejection that AFC's use
 

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Freshman year of college opened me up to how often girls cheat. Being a freshman, all the girls had boyfriends back home. They all cheated on them with me. Not complaining but it’s eye opening. Only get in open relationships
Make a new thread in the DON JUAN TIPS about it, there are too many AFC in this forum.
I'm in college too
 

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If you want me to I can. All the stuff that got me results was from pook but I have thoughts of my own. Especially the power of status and social relationships.
Do it, the Tips forum is empty compared to the discussions forum, with all these AFC hanging around. More threads there are on the tips forum, more ideas, will come out, and more people will test them in the field.
And you'll also benefit from the comments

The only thing that I don't agree with pook is that he believed in the ONE
 

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I suppose we have do define what long distance is.

If she is only an hours drive away, and is able to come over to see you a couple of times a week.. Then i wouldn't consider that long distance.
No i agree to that, i live in Canada and the county is huge (second largest in the world) so an hour drive is no big deal, but if you live 1500 miles away as the title of the article, that is a penpal. If you live in London and she lives in Glasgow, she is a penpal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"It's a reverse surprise......"

Lol.....best comment in the story......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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