"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man Reportedly Travels 1500 Miles to Surprise Girlfriend, Finds Her With Another Man

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ooops
 

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Surprise!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I should have quit you long time ago
Ohh yeah, long time ago
I wouldn't be here, my children
Down on this killin' floor
I should have listened, baby, to my second mind
Ohh, I should have listened, baby, to my second mind
Every time I go away and leave you, darling
You send me the blues way down the line, ohh
Babe, yeah
Treat me right baby
Oh my, my, my
Alright, take it down a bit
People tellin' me baby can't be satisfied
They try to worry me baby
But they never hurt you in my eyes
Said, people worry baby, I can't keep you satisfied
Huh, let me tell you baby
You ain't nothin' but a two-bit, no-good jive
I wwent to sleep last night, I worked as hard as I can
I bring home my money, you take my money, give it to another man
I should have quit you, baby

Oh,…
 

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Wolf sued and got songwriting credit subsequently, plus some money.
lol him and about ten other dudes.

Page's business strategy seems to have been to steal songs, and hopefully make enough money to pay off the lawsuits and still stay ahead.

Kind of a win-win when you think about it.

Everybody ends up making more money in the long run.
 

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Long distance.. Complete waste of fukin time.. Soon as a closer option is available..

Tour is over boyo!
 

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You'd be surprised with our own Sosuave 'Masters' having long distance relationship over the net.

As if writing novels of how they FEEL for her can replace the presence of real man.
Like i have always told guys who say "I'm in a long distance relationship."
I correct them and tell them "you don't have a girlfriend. You have a pen pal."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Like i have always told guys who say "I'm in a long distance relationship."
I correct them and tell them "you don't have a girlfriend. You have a pen pal."

I suppose we have do define what long distance is.

If she is only an hours drive away, and is able to come over to see you a couple of times a week.. Then i wouldn't consider that long distance.
 

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LDR's don't exists, they're are a buffer to rejection that AFC's use
 

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Freshman year of college opened me up to how often girls cheat. Being a freshman, all the girls had boyfriends back home. They all cheated on them with me. Not complaining but it’s eye opening. Only get in open relationships
Make a new thread in the DON JUAN TIPS about it, there are too many AFC in this forum.
I'm in college too
 

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If you want me to I can. All the stuff that got me results was from pook but I have thoughts of my own. Especially the power of status and social relationships.
Do it, the Tips forum is empty compared to the discussions forum, with all these AFC hanging around. More threads there are on the tips forum, more ideas, will come out, and more people will test them in the field.
And you'll also benefit from the comments

The only thing that I don't agree with pook is that he believed in the ONE
 

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I suppose we have do define what long distance is.

If she is only an hours drive away, and is able to come over to see you a couple of times a week.. Then i wouldn't consider that long distance.
No i agree to that, i live in Canada and the county is huge (second largest in the world) so an hour drive is no big deal, but if you live 1500 miles away as the title of the article, that is a penpal. If you live in London and she lives in Glasgow, she is a penpal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"It's a reverse surprise......"

Lol.....best comment in the story......
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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