"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DJ_in_making
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wjh
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rdxshooter
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How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
wjh
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the quote isn't "tall BLACK and handsome"Originally posted by rdxshooter
because they know black is more attractive
How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
tans just look healthy and are attractive. even then, it's cultural. in places like India, it's completely the opposite and DARK/BLACK is unnattractive and less socially rewarded.
anyway rdx, you're a dipshyt.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Walking Anomaly
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Anyone can be tall dark and handsome....ANYONE
Being tan does look healthier, but there is way too much emphasis on it IMO...some people do it so much that they turn orange...sad.
And stop hating rdx
I'm Joe Dirt
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I guess I can't relate to the problem of having to go tanning since I am naturally darker, but for some reason I don't think looking like you spent your whole summer on the beach is very attractive. You can tell when a tan is fake, especially during winter time, and I think that's kind of lame.
Joe The Homophobe
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Our skin gets darker as we age as a result of skin being damaged over time. Yet people go and do damage to their skin by tanning, damage that should happen over a lifetime.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
OMG. Will you quit it with this immature bull**** already? You sound like a 4th grader making fun of his classmates during recess...No class...Originally posted by rdxshooter
because they know black is more attractive
How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
Dude, what really matters is how you come off. Not your skin color. If you're really worried about the tone of your skin, just cut up and bulk up like noone's business and it won't even be an issue.
Sure, go ahead and bronze up a bit...that is, as long as it makes you feel better. But make sure you are doing it for you. The whole premise of confidence is that you do things FOR YOU. Not because you care what other people think. Make sure you are coming from a place where this is something for YOU, not for THEM.
Personally, I wouldn't do it, because of skin cancer risk.
SHARKZILLA
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