"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man Im White!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DJ_in_making
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wjh
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rdxshooter
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How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
wjh
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the quote isn't "tall BLACK and handsome"Originally posted by rdxshooter
because they know black is more attractive
How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
tans just look healthy and are attractive. even then, it's cultural. in places like India, it's completely the opposite and DARK/BLACK is unnattractive and less socially rewarded.
anyway rdx, you're a dipshyt.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Walking Anomaly
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Anyone can be tall dark and handsome....ANYONE
Being tan does look healthier, but there is way too much emphasis on it IMO...some people do it so much that they turn orange...sad.
And stop hating rdx
I'm Joe Dirt
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I guess I can't relate to the problem of having to go tanning since I am naturally darker, but for some reason I don't think looking like you spent your whole summer on the beach is very attractive. You can tell when a tan is fake, especially during winter time, and I think that's kind of lame.
Joe The Homophobe
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Our skin gets darker as we age as a result of skin being damaged over time. Yet people go and do damage to their skin by tanning, damage that should happen over a lifetime.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
OMG. Will you quit it with this immature bull**** already? You sound like a 4th grader making fun of his classmates during recess...No class...Originally posted by rdxshooter
because they know black is more attractive
How does that old saying go "Tall DARK and handsom"
Dark being the key word
Dude, what really matters is how you come off. Not your skin color. If you're really worried about the tone of your skin, just cut up and bulk up like noone's business and it won't even be an issue.
Sure, go ahead and bronze up a bit...that is, as long as it makes you feel better. But make sure you are doing it for you. The whole premise of confidence is that you do things FOR YOU. Not because you care what other people think. Make sure you are coming from a place where this is something for YOU, not for THEM.
Personally, I wouldn't do it, because of skin cancer risk.
SHARKZILLA
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